or what do you think the first thing you would stop doing is?
I want to say sex, but there are so many couple that I hear don't have sex any more I'm not sure if that is the case, but I could be wrong.
Anyway, a friend asked me for advice regarding this and I really didn't know what to tell him. I told him he'd have to ask a woman! The question has stuck with me though.
2007-03-05 07:18:34 · 16 answers · asked by MetalHeart 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you for the responses. This had confirmed what I thought. Thank you all for the insight.
2007-03-05 08:47:35 · update #1
No longer wanting to communicate with him is one of the biggest signs you will notice when a women is no longer interested in her spouse. Women always want to communicate, we love to talk about things to get more detail on what our spouse is thinking and we can't stand to just drop an arguement. It is not in our genes. So when we just don't care anymore...something is wrong. If the women also is avoiding spending time with her spouse, for example: going out with friends, staying on the computer late, talking on the phone all the time, staying over friends, the relationship is coming to an end. It depends on the person whether you can tell through sex. You know your partner when it comes to that...so if you feel something different in your sex life or see changes..start asking questions
2007-03-05 07:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by mandymae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I stopped loving my ex, this was 10years ago..and common-law.......sex was the first to go...I couldn't even have him touch me or lean against me in bed...it made me tense... not caring about him and everyday things..I still made dinner (cause I was hungry and I always make enough if friends stopped in) I would not want to spend time with him..and if we were in the same house at the same time..I wouldn't start up a conversation...one word answers...I just didn't care..yet this man...I mean boy...hurt me so much, and so many ways....that there was no more to give back..it wasn't till it was over that he then tryed...he still brings up that time and what he knows now he wished he knew then...we had a child together...so that's the only reason we stayed together alittle longer then I wanted but I was out when my son turned 1..they say once one door closes another opens...and it did for me...now I have the man of my dreams
2007-03-05 16:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Withdrawal, both physical and emotional - but the emotional is more so. Not talking to him as much, and not talking about anything "real" when she does. The sex thing I don't think is as good an indicator, because some women who have lost feeling for their husbands will still have sex with them so they won't "catch on." Also, some women who love their husbands a lot may stop having sex for totally unrelated reasons, like hormone imbalance or something.
2007-03-05 15:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by romipenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women aren't books and they don't come with signs. They are delicate and intricate pieces of nature and each model has a completely different set of operating instructions. Since men are usually the last to know what their women are thinking, even though most women shout their every thought and emotion from the rooftops, I would say that if it enters his mind then she's probably already bailed on the marriage, emotionally (which is the only part that counts with women), if not physically.
Your man has a huge heads up, if his wife is still living with him, and I would suggest he get hot on winning her heart back before she gives it to someone else.
2007-03-05 15:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is NOT usually a sign because 98% of all marriages in this country are sexless. It is a normal part of marriage.
Usually when someone doesn't love the other any longer there can be many symptoms: Not wanting to spend time with the other, lashing out and saying things, arguing, cutting them out of their lives.
2007-03-05 16:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the hugs, kisses, and little conversations stop thats a clear sign that it's all going down hill. It may be the sex for some but there are also other reasons why some people stop having sex.
2007-03-05 15:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not real specific, but sex is usually the first to go. Usually its not from not loving the husband but from boredom. I was ready to leave my husband , I felt like he was taking me for granted. Our sex life was the same routine. Boring. I had tried to talk to him to no avail, but when he knew I was serious about leaving, he put more energy into our relationship. I loved him and always knew it but also knew I could not live the rest of my life the way it had been going. Things are much better now!
2007-03-05 15:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are quiet a few things like no sex, no conversaions, a few rows, making sure you are in bed for a long time before she goes to bed, or she goes to bed long before you. Is she out all the time as she may have someone else.
2007-03-05 15:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more caring...doesn't worry if he is thirst when she gets a drink, doesn't worry if he had a good day at work. Not very talkative...There are alot of things. But sex isn't the biggest hint.
2007-03-05 15:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shows no interest in your work or hobbies. She no longer cares about when you go out or for how long. She prefers time alone to time spent with you. Basically, she'll treat you with indifference.
2007-03-05 15:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋