If your husband of two years told you during sex that your breasts were 'a bit small,' how would you feel

Answer 1

I would tell him his co*ck is a bit small

Answer 2

pondering i'm a techniques from small, i could in simple terms chuckle. If i replaced into actually small, i could accept as true with him and go away it at that. it is not going i could have replaced provided that we've been together, so if he had a difficulty with my breast length, it could have ended the relationship long until now we've been given married.

Answer 3

Ask him (not during sex) how he feels about your breasts...he may like a bit small! But I know I would now feel very uncomfortable getting undressed in front of him and I believe it would lead to a great drop in my sex drive! Not as a "punishment" for him (which may be a side benefit) but because I would feel uncomfortable with him seeing and touching what he finds inadequate and risk being further insulted.

Answer 4

Yep...thinking that the sex part of things would stop right then and there (although sometimes I wish these puppies were a bit smaller). How I would treat him after, I don't know...but I'm going to guess the silent treatment may play a small part.

Answer 5

well, for one, my partner and I talk a lot about bodies as we are both educational activists and we study both sex and gender. A breast is just a lump of flesh and fatty tissue with glands. I would have to ask, "a bit small for what?"

I honestly wouldn't be with someone who makes derogatory statements about bodies and has unrealistic expectations and is selfishly insensitive with the comments they make. It is just a breast, after all.

I am attracted to people who can keep up with me intellectually, who are compassionate, and who are not concerned with petty social beauty standards.

If a person made such a statement with a derogatory angle I would be very unnatracted to their lack of empathy and their shallow reasoning...

Also, I have a lot of respect for the person who pointed out that a lot of people in this thread are condoning gendered violence, as if hitting any human is acceptable, just because one is man-identified or male-identified, why should their bodies be any less sacred that people would condone such violence? If this were a thread for women identified people or female identified people, and such talk of assault, I think some people would be shocked and deeply offended.

Answer 6

Well, I don't have a husband, but that statement should give you a little insight on what to expect from him in the future. He's either gonna ask you to have breast enhancement or he's gonna find a bigger pair of breasts. It's your call on how you handle either one of those situations. But I would feel angry and scared.

Answer 7

I would be Disgusted to be honest!!

How about you tell him his penis is a bit small which it probaly is! and I bet you have never said anything have you?

Women never do, we always just keep quiet as we wouldnt want to hurt the persons feelings, yet a bloke well thats another story!

Your **** is fat or your breasts are small, whatever they decide to make you feel **** about this week!!

He is probaly trying to make you feel bad, maybe he thinks your to confident and he is trying to bring you down a peg or to!

Tell him Bo**OX!!!!

Answer 8

I would feel a bit confused. Are they shrinking? Maybe his hands are getting bigger? Then again maybe the chick he's been banging on the side has bigger ones and from time to time he gets us confused. Tell him that your boy friend thinks they are the perfect size, and that since he brought it up tell him that you think that his wee willie is a bit small see how he likes it.

Answer 9

Isn't his statement a wee bit late?

(pass him the copy of the Instruction Manual and Complaints Procedure')

I'm not a woman, so I can't answer as to 'what I would do or feel,' but I'd be curious as to 'by what standards was he judging 'small' by?'

In relation to what or whose are they small!

How can they be 'small' when they are what they are?

So, what does he 'expect you to do about this?'

Uuum! Have you thought of mentioning just how 'un-large' his penis is?

I'm against telling someone to 'grow up,' but I can feel the desire to say something like ....'them words.'

Good luck to you in your educating him.
Sash.

Answer 10

lol there must be something physical about him that disturbs you, point it out to him. Maybe he just wants some action and tries to creat drama. There are also men viewers at the audience of Springer.

Answer 11

I love small breasts.