me and my bf was going to have sex but it really hurts when he pushes it up so i stop him ! he used a condom and i was wet is there anything to make it less painful ??
2007-03-05 06:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by Chloe. 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sound as if you are not ready for the intimate stuff yet, as if you were wet there should not have been a problem, So maybe wait a we while longer and try again, it will happen eventually, good luck
2007-03-05 23:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having sex for the first time ... it's because he will have to break your hymen ... which is always going to be slightly painful ... unless you're so turned on with the foreplay that you barely notice it ...
If this isn't the case ... and you're already experienced, then you have to take any pain seriously ... as it could be infection (such as chlamydia etc) ... or thrush ... or an ovarian cyst ... or endometriosis ... or even an ectopic pregnancy ...
So ... if it's the former ... my recommendation would be lots of foreplay and him being gentle
If it's the latter ... do a pregnancy test and see a doc ... and persevere with the condoms ...
All the best hun x
2007-03-05 07:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by confused-in-love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using lubricants that can be uses with condoms,or even try using some toys, and when you feel relaxed leave the rest to your bf that's if you need him lol Good Luck
2007-03-05 09:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by PAMELA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T USE BABY OIL if you're using condoms because it will weaken the rubber and the condom will split. There are plenty of waterbased lubricants that won't damage the condom.
I suggest more foreplay and try and relax. There's no need to him to ram it in either- ask him to be gentle with you.
2007-03-05 08:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by greenbean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not ready, or indeed relaxed enough, try foreplay instead for a while, this will take the pressure off, and when you get to no each others bodies better you may relax more
2007-03-05 21:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he is hitting your cervix when he penetrates. You can try different positions and have your boyfriend to not push too hard or all the way in.
2007-03-05 07:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Çåŗőľîņẫ§ħŷġĭ®ł 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to relax more love and if you get half way through and you are in pain stop i suffered the same and i used to be sick as well take your time
2007-03-05 22:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by flickerboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay,
Fingers to open you,
Slow penetration
KEEP THE CONDOMS ON!!!!
2007-03-05 06:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use baby oil when i get a bit dry and the most important thing is to be relaxed.if you aren't then your muscles down below will tighten up and it will feel uncomfortable you dont mention how old you both are or if it is your first time.
take if from someone who knows ..dont do it till your completely ready i waited til i was 21.
good luck.
2007-03-05 07:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by suejones987 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave it until you are really ready to take this step
you will be relaxed and it will not be painful
2007-03-05 06:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by frogg135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋