2007-03-05 06:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by pharoah_the_midget 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Dude, if it is something she expects, desires and enjoys from a lover, and you can not provide it, what is she suppose to do without it? It sounds like you have a lady who loves getting oral, but you do not like giving it. If you do not like doing it for her, ask yourself why? Does she taste bad? Does she smell bad? Why are you against doing it for her?
If she smells or tastes bad, a simple diet adjustment on her part might be necessary to alter the taste/smell. If that doesn't work, a doctor might be able to prescribe something to help the smell/taste. If it's a visual thing (roast beef curtins, misshappen, Lincolin tunnel effect) you can't get past, she may find someone who will.
If she needs it, she may go searching for a waiting tongue, unless you can come up with an alternative for the oral.
2007-03-05 06:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my man. I would be upfront with him and tell him what I want. Why don't you want to perform oral on her ? Is it the appearance ? Do it in the dark ! Is it the taste ? Try sucking on a lifesaver or a Halls cough drop (very nice for both of you) while doing it. Or maybe just the whole idea of it does not excite you ? Perhaps there is an alternative...if she really wants oral performed on her, but you don't want to do it for her, try a toy. There are many that can offer what she needs without you actually having to deliver. Toys can be a fun experience that you both may enjoy ! Good luck...
2007-03-05 07:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ain't nobody better go downtown on me!!!!! I am a 33 year old virgin and plan to remain that way until my wedding night. If I ever had a boyfriend that tried that on me, he wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore. I am remaining pure for my husband I want the first time i have sex to be special, undefiled by another man.
2007-03-05 07:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by basf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a few drinks and do it, you'd expect the same from her, right??? I know I wouldn't be with a man that refused!
2007-03-05 07:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by sbj95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are into this,if she doesn't enjoy it what you need to do is find out what she does enjoy,at the end of the day,if your serious it is her pleasure that counts.
2007-03-05 12:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necesarily. Has she told you she would? Some women don't particularly like it.
2007-03-05 06:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently someone has done this to her before or else how would she know how it felt,
2007-03-05 07:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋