Ok I've been bad and let my curiousity get the best of me...I have been snooping in my bf's online bank account. I've had an on/off relationship with him and it has been hard to trust if he is being straight with me or may be involved with someone else. I still love him and I don't want him to find out i've been snooping or even worse, end up losing him. When I am logged into the bank site there is an info bar I can click on to look at the account login history. The history shows the last 20 logins which are from me so he will see that someone has been logging in to his bank account. HELP!! Does anyone know if it is possible to delete the login history or have any other ideas that might work? And does anyone know if the older login history is no longer viewable after a certain period of time--like say maybe a month or so? I wish I never let my curiousity get the best of me. I don't know if he'll ever forgive me if he knew it was me. I hate to lie but I might have to to get out of this.
2007-03-05 06:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by jackmowack 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Other - Computers
That's what the whole last login thing is for. So you know if your account has been tampered with so, No this is no way of deleting the history.
I feel you shouldn't tell him that you have been snooping, he probably won't even notice the last login so bite your tougue. You are feeling insecure with your relationship so this just helps to calm those feelings. Yeah, it's stupid but I know exactly how you feel. Better than things to blindside you.
2007-03-05 06:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Yvonne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you shouldn't have been snooping around, but do you know if HE looks at the login history or not? He might not even know its there....just as some people do not know that there is a site history on their internet page. Don't mention anything and see if he notices. Hopefully he wont. I would think that the older login history would disappear after like a month or so, but I don't know. Hopefully what you did was worth it and you found out some interesting information or something, cause otherwise it might have been kind of a waste. I hope that he is not foling aorund on you, though. Like I said, just don't mention it, and hopefully you will be able to explain to him if he finds out. It depends how understand he is and if you are able to explain it correctly. Make sure he trusts you from then on though, and hopefully your relationship is strong enough to withstand this. Good luck.
2007-03-05 06:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mellio 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it is stored on the banks own site you probabl;y wont be able to delete the log in history. Signing in once is bad enough but 20 times sounds line you in the wrong relationship. Better you coming clean than him complaining to the bank if he finds the history himself and starts an investigation.
If you lose him over checking his bank account you would lose him over anything.
2007-03-05 06:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by jackie_1969uk 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
is he the kind of person to look at the log in history?? b/c personally, i dont do that lol i never look at it, and if he doesnt make a big deal out of it i wouldnt worry. If he does happen to say anything i guess i would be truthful , i would just tell him that ive been having some trust issues and it was really wrong of me..and i just hope we ca move past this and get through it
if that doesnt sound good to you, then you diE!
2007-03-05 06:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by AngryFalafel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you have a problem. Frankly if you violated my trust, you would have a long way to go to get it back. Lying about it would only make it worse. Having said that you have three choices, 1. Tell him about it now, and take the consequences. 2. Wait until he asks, and then admit it, and take the consequences. 3. Wait until he asks and lie. At which point I hope that he would have sense enough to dump you. Frankly I'd go with the second choice, as he may not find out.
2007-03-05 06:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and be honest! Tell him what you did, why you did it and that you know you shouldn't have done it. This is your only chance. If he finds out that you did it anyway, you are definately out!
I wouldn't want to be with such a child, so I would side with him on this one. Either you are with him and trust him, let go what was in the past, or you haven't. If you haven't(which is obvious) you shouldn't be with him.
2007-03-05 06:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Be an adult and tell him before he finds out for himself. Take some responsibility for your own actions, for God's sake!
2007-03-05 06:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'm gonna be frank. if you don't trust him, get rid of him. you're snooping into his personal info, and possibly willing to lie to him to cover your tracks, so you're no more trustworthy than he is.
2007-03-05 06:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by blaze 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be more concerned with the legal ramifications of what you are doing. It is funny that you speak of trust.....
good luck
2007-03-05 06:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You deserve what you get. How did you get his password anyway?
2007-03-05 06:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋