2007-03-05 06:27:42 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just wait it out. If he is truly your friend then you don't want to step on his toes and try and take his girlfriend.
2007-03-05 06:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jared P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in this exact same situation twice. Only for me one time i was the one who got their boyfriend takin away. Trust me, try your best to forget about this girl, even if you have to make excuses to not see her. Its pointless to wait until they breakup because even if your friends says they dont care, they will and it will eventually come out and then your relationship with your friend will be ruined. Basicly, if you are POSITIVE this girl likes you too, then you decide weather shes worth losing your friend, for me it wasnt and now me and the guy arent together and ive lost a best friend, think of the consiquenses.
2007-03-05 06:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be easier if she weren't with someone but sometimes things like that don't always pan out like we want them to. You might just let them continuing dating since they are happy and stay friends with your friend, if you try to get in the middle of it then you and your friend will be in a fight over who should get the girl when in fact your friend had her first. Don't do anything that is going to break a friendship just because you like this girl and want to be with her, if their relationship does not work out and she wants to date you then she will if it works and she does not want to date you still then you know what you have to do, find someone else that is not attached.
2007-03-05 06:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think yourself as a well wisher of both and keep a distance .
In this group of 3, let us say,
A= yourself
B= the girl you love ,(one sided b'cos she is having a boy friend)
C= the othe boy
1)The relation ship between A & B is one way.
2)The relation ship between B & C is two way.
By logic, 2 is stronger than 1 and you have to allow them to prosper and blossom their relationship.
Assume ,something better waits for you.
Good luck!
2007-03-08 22:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY WELL AWAY!!!!! Seriously your friendships are more important than a girl. Girlfriends will come and go but your mates will be there forever. Ask yourself this, wot would happen if you made your feelings clear to this girl and she rejected you only to tell your friend? Think about it, it would break his heart because as his mate you are someone he trusts and that would break this trust forever
2007-03-05 06:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you
and i think you need to put your feelings aside and let her be happy with this other guy
i was in a relationship for 1 1/2 years and a friend of mine and my bf started to fall in love with me and he put his feelings aside and let me be happy while my boyfriend put his feelings first all the time and so i dumped him and im now with the guy that waited and he is so much better but the only reason i left my ex and got with this new guy was cus he put me before him and waited and that's what you should do to
2007-03-05 06:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably like that girl because you hang out with her and your male friend. It's a natural occurence to have feelings for people you spend a lot of time with. Your heart doesn't know boundaries like--oh that girl belongs to that guy, therefore I cannot feel anything for her...
Basically, if you like her and she likes you, then go for it. Your friend will have to get over it. But, if you like her and she likes your friend, then let them live it out. Ya never know--they could break up and she'll cry on your shoulder...
2007-03-05 06:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends first. Friends will always be there before and after a relationship. If you are really close best friends....i'd recommend not going after the girl. but if you are friends that are close, but not that close...admire the girl from afar. If you love her like i think you do...she'll come to you. My bf was like that. i loved him with all my heart...he didn't know it. but we ended up getting together. We're gonna get married. I hope my advice helps you. good luck
2007-03-05 06:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by sugar & spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away my friend. As much as it hurts. If you really, really love her then wait. Maybe she will soon realize her now boyfriend is no good for her and when she starts looking around for someone new, there you'll be!
2007-03-05 06:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in the exact same situation twice. heres what you should do sit down and figure out which one is more important just some girl or your friend but is he a GOOD friend orrr do you see something in the future with this girl all you have to do is figure out which one means more to you AND if she even likes you the same way
2007-03-05 06:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude please,you know the rules! You can't go out with your friend's ex until 6 months after they break-up. Besides, if he is a good friend of yours why would you want his girlfriend?
2007-03-05 06:36:14 · answer #11 · answered by kjnoles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋