My husband works closely with a female co-worker???

Question

My husband works closely with a female co worker...she isnt ugly either and attractive and that she laughs at him alot with his jokes should i worry about this???

Answer 1

the mere fact that u have though about it, i say YES!!!

Answer 2

Hon, I did that my entire professional career - see, I'm a Registered Professional Nurse, and most of my co-workers were female - and a lot of 'em were young, very attractive and not at all above quite a bit of flirting. Big deal - ours is a very stressful job and a person has to have a bit of levity now and then. Surprisingly few of my co-workers who were married ever strayed, and I didn't, either. I went on to advance my education and broaden my career horizons, and many of the girls did, too. I don't think you need worry on account of the lady's appearance or the fact that he and she work well together.

Answer 3

In the United States men are sometimes required to work with women. (I know it its horrible but ever since they were allowed to vote they also want jobs too!)
SOMETIMES those same women are actually attractive and may even find your hubby's jokes funny.
Now pay very close attention...
This does not mean your husband is cheating or is about to cheat.
This DOES mean you may be insecure and displaying such insecurities is NEVER attractive.
So on one hand you may just be a worry wart.
On the other hand it may be your intuition trying to tell you something.

Answer 4

Dont' worry. It's might be a little competition. This is just an opportunity for you to rise to the ocassion. Deal with this situation before it deals with you.

If you need to get in they gym. Do it. Start making yourself attractive for your husband. Do what it takes to keep your man. Worrying won't get you anywhere. Be proactive. Not reacitve. A woman can keep her husband from cheating. Don't be a victim.

Answer 5

Why? maybe she thinks he has a great sense of humor. Stop looking for something that isn't there. not unless you want to run the risk of an affair actually happening because you start putting the screws to your husband over imagined attention by this woman.

Answer 6

No!!! Not unless he has given you a reason too. If you continue to be jealous though you might start pushing him away and he may want to be with her instead. He cannot help the fact that she thinks he is funny. Dont worry so much. He comes home to you right??

Answer 7

If your insecure in your relationship yes! has he cheated before? Have you? I say keep your eyes open and pay close attention to how your relationship with him is...I mean if he starts acting weird then confront him. Only worry about things you can do something about.

Answer 8

If your husband is going to cheat he's going to cheat. Hopefully you know him well enough to trust him. I'm sure she's not the only coworker who laughs at his jokes, maybe he's just a funny guy. I wouldn't worry about it unless he's acting suspiciously.

Answer 9

Unfortunately men cheat especially when a girl is all over them and unfortunately when women see happily married men and they dont have that trust me girl they want that happiness or they just want to break up a happy home...dont get to fussy about it and dont accuse him that will only make him wanna do it even more...just keep your eyes open

Answer 10

Let him know that if he crosses a certain line, he will have alot to be worried about. You'll make sure of it.

Answer 11

i am sure you cannot help but worry but what can you do? or rather what shoyuld you do? i 'll tell you--->nothing! just trust him..dont let him know you are thinking about this. it will make matters worse and probably there is even nothing to be concerned about.