If your wife leaved you for two months, and you stay with the children, what does it mean?
1.- She is coming back with excuses, and stay.
2.- She is not coming back at all, although she is calling you with excuses.
3.- She is coming back with excuses, and leave again shortly after.
4.- She doesn’t care about you.
5.- She doesn’t care about you and the children.
6.- She cares about the children but not you.
7.- She doesn’t care about anybody else but herself.
2007-03-05 06:10:38 · 12 answers · asked by Mark N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you know where she is?? Does she have an addiction? Is she suffering from depression or some other type of mental illness? Is she afraid of hurting you or your children? These are all questions that need to be answered before you draw conclusions. There could be a lot more going on here than meets the eye. Do you still love her?? She could have left BECAUSE she loves you all. Is there anyway to contact her? It sounds to me like a cry for help. There are not many mothers out there just willing to walk away from their children~~maybe a marriage~~but children, only if there is some serious problem, be it a chemical dependency or a mental illness, you need to find her and get her help, for your childrens sake. Good luck and GOD BLESS.
2007-03-05 06:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by notso_recoveringwino 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
7
2007-03-05 06:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
5 & 7
2007-03-05 06:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its 5 and 7, if she cared about you and the children she would have tooken u with her for those 2 months!
2007-03-05 06:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she left to buy you a dictionary... the correct grammar is "your wife left you," not "your wife leaved you."
In any case, you can't assume she is going to come back, and you haven't given us enough information to assume anything about her motives. Maybe she doesn't care about any of you; or maybe she is incapable of caring about anyone right now (due to mental illness, addiction, emotional trauma, whatever). Until she contacts you or you find out where she's gone, focus on caring for your children and planning for the future without her. When you do get in touch with her, ask her to discuss options - family therapy, treatment, divorce, shared custody, etc.
2007-03-05 06:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the answer is All of the Above!!
It could mean anything, and still, to start with, is just plain wrong to leave a husband and the kids and just disappear. What kind of mother is that?
2007-03-05 06:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point you should not care what she cares about. you need to focus on your children, and yourself. file for divorce, and move on with your life. since she has left you with the children for 2 months, i don't think you would have a problem getting custody of them. good luck, and just move on. she's no good for you.
2007-03-05 06:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
7 wow sorry to hear that man. A woman that doesnt see her kids for 2 months is seriously messed up
2007-03-05 06:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means I would be turning off all credit cards that she has and opening a new bank account and chaning my direct deposit so you are not paying for this little trip of hers.
2007-03-05 06:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that I would not allow her to come back and the kids stay with me.
2007-03-05 06:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋