The worst day of my life was when I got a phone call from my boyfriend's sister that my boyfriend got killed. I was taking a shower and started calling his phone and getting dressed at the same time. My mom came pick me up and I went to the place where he got shot. I was running there praying the God that is not him. The police was there, people looking and there he was laying there on the ground (thank God cover) I start to go crazy. It was our worst nightmare to loose each other and now I'm living it!!!!!!! It's been 4 months now and I still think about that night and I can't control it. I miss him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 05:31:02 · 7 answers · asked by Blair26 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
For some people, time heals nothing. Time may never take the pain away. Sometimes, you have to do things to get over this. I would suggest writing about it. Writing about something is a good way to release all of your unresolved feelings that you have inside. I would also suggest sharing and talking about this with someone very close to you. There is no reason you have to hurt alone. If this problem goes on for too long, there is no shame going to a councilor.
2007-03-05 05:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by agassi8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got one of those calls last april, my husband of 15 yrs died in a motorcylce accident. Its hard I know but you have to keep going. Try remembering the good times and try to think he is the lucky one for leaving this messed up world.
Its almost been a yr for me, I still have a huge void in my life, dont know if it will ever go away but I get up every morning and keep on living and hope some day the void will be filled.
Hang in there, you will be ok.
2007-03-05 05:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My desirable day replaced into as quickly as I qualified as expert with the M1 rifle in boot camp (and for the subsequent 4 years besides). My worst day replaced into as quickly as I landed in a Marine Corps Brig. I went Absent with out go away (AWOL) for 11 days on Waikiki sea coast in Honolulu. I had a great time till it got here time to pay the piper.
2016-12-14 11:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh,I am seriously about to cry. I have no clue what I would do if that happened to my boyfriend. Are you seeing a therapist about it or anything? It could really help you. I wish you all of the best, and am really sorry for what you went through.
2007-03-05 05:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Katelynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man I am sorry for your loss... but if your boyfriend was able to tell you something.. it would be that he wants you to move on and be happy... he would not want you to be sad and crying...
I know it takes time... but you will be ok..
really.. you will be ok ... take my word for it
2007-03-05 05:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loss of a parent.
2007-03-05 05:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by donkey hotay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry.
2007-03-05 05:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Christie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋