A guy I like who doens't really give me much attention said that he would like me more if I kissed this other girl who he really likes. He said he would go out with me if I did it. Should I?
2007-03-05 05:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Lolipop 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I wouldn't recommend it. Do things you're comfortable with, and never do something just because someone else wants you to. I doubt he'd actually go out with you just because you kissed this other girl. It's that whole "lesbians are hot" mentality most guys have. If he doesn't pay much attention to you and would only do so because you kissed another hot girl, obviously he doesn't care enough for you for the relationship to mean anything.
You obviously can't just stop liking the guy, but he doesn't really seem like the "boyfriend" type if that's what he bases who he dates on. Maybe you could expand your horizons a bit...find a guy to like who will like you for you, and never, EVER do something you don't want to just to make someone like you. You should never have to do that anyway.
2007-03-05 07:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by SheIsDeath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if he actually liked you, you wouldn't have to earn him.
That sounds incredibly immature on his part. I say he's not worth it.
As for the girl, only kiss her if you want to. Don't do it for someone else... that just makes the whole men-objectifying-women thing worse.
2007-03-05 13:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may not like you now, and he won't like you afterwards. Take it from a guy who used to pull stunts like that. He wants to see if you'll do it, (so him and his friends can laugh at you!). He still won't give you the time of day, unless he wants you to do something stupid again!
2007-03-05 13:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dane Cruz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't as it appears he is just using you. It's one think if you do actually like/love each other and want to experiment with each other's fantasies, but indicating that he'd like you better if you do something (doesn't really matter what) is just using.
2007-03-05 13:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. He obviously doesn't respect you. I'm sorry but if thats the only way he gets his jollies than he's obviously to desperate for anybody. And have you even asked the other girl?
2007-03-05 13:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Shy poet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No.
If he wants you to do this, he isn't worth your time.
I'm sure there is someone out there who would appreciate you for who you are and not make you do something that you're not comfortable with.
2007-03-05 13:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by frozenpancake582 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way! He is just saying that to see you do it
2007-03-05 13:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by igurl101 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
man ur dumb how old are u 13, he doesnt respect you and u need to learn to respect ur self.
2007-03-05 13:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by colodge_25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. And if you really think about it, it doesn't make sense.
2007-03-05 13:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it doesn't bother you to be used.
2007-03-05 13:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋