Do you ever fantasize about being with a brother-in-law?
I do, one of his sisters husband and his stepbrother.
I don't know where the attraction comes from. I would never act on it but it is something I sometimes catch myself wondering about. I don't even find them that attractive or my type.
2007-03-05 05:23:05 · 23 answers · asked by misc.mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it is normal for woman to have thoughts like that. Especially when you are married because your with the same person all the time, everyday, 24/7 and sometimes we might wonder things just to spice things up, or make things more interesting.
Not that we would act on it (some women do and they are wrong for it), but it is in our nature to dream up things. Silly things, conflicts, lovers, and anything.
2007-03-05 05:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing is natural for a women. I would have to say that you are not physicaly attracted to these gentlemen but maybe some aspects they have that you are not noticing in your husband. It does not mean you are going to act up on it but try and figure out what is so appealling to you about these other men. It could just simply be they are hands off and out of reach.
2007-03-05 05:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's pretty common I'm sure. My husband's brothers don't have much on the ball but in my first marriage, my brother-in-law was a really great person, kind and considerate. Unfortunately, his brother (my husband) didn't always demonstrate those qualities. So yeah, I did fantasize about it. I wouldn't take it any further than a fantasy though.
2007-03-05 05:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sooo glad that I'm not the only one that has ever done this. I have fantasized about two of his four brothers. I am attracted to one of them (his real brother) but not his half brother. The half brother is not my type either. I guess it is normal or ok as long as we don't act upon our fantasies. I'm sure that if our spouse were truthful that they have had fantasies about one of our relatives.
2007-03-05 05:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by moneybagsgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, no. My only brother in law is a total ***, and my going-to-be-brother in law is older than my father. I'd be better off fantasizing over my husband.
2007-03-05 05:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do my share of fantasizing but it's not with anyone who is actually accessible. I fantasize about celebrities, people I know I have no chance in hell with but television allows them to seem perfect, thus the fatansy begins!!
2007-03-05 06:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married but I know I would NEVER do that. How would you feel your husband fantasizing about your sister? No offence. And if you think it's RIGHT and there's nothing WRONG about it, then go on tell your husband about it.
2007-03-05 05:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, fortunately for me I am a straight male. Fantasizing is just window shopping. You admire what you see and you may well drool at actually having it. But fantasies in themselves are harmless. It is what we actually do which can be dangerous. Dangerous to family relationships and to ourselves. You, yourself, admit that you are not so inclined, so set your eyes above their navel and see the stars
2007-03-05 05:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't just for the simple fact i know that i would not like it if my husband thought about other women like that. On top of that he only has sisters so lol that would not be right. I think that it would make him feel bad to know if i did.
2007-03-05 05:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to fantasize, I'm sure just about everyone does it whether they will admit it or not! As long as you don't act upon it OR call out that other guy's name in the middle of the night, you're fine!
2007-03-05 05:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋