to it.
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anytime i have a dream that involves a man comming, their is always always a realy bad oder to it...in my dream...everytime the mans com smells bad and it always has the same bad oder in ever dream like it. WHY?
I told you it would sound stupid, but I REALLY WANNA KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS.
PLEASE
try not to give stupid retarted answers! I know your dying to!
But i really wanna know what this means, and why its always the same.
TO THE SINCERE ANSWERERS
I THANKYOU DEEPLY!
2007-03-05
05:18:08
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Crissy
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i dont dream about this allll the time, just occationally. but its always the same oder when i do dream of it.
2007-03-05
05:26:16 ·
update #1
I have been married 18 years. I dont dream of my husband, its other men, men i dont know, men that are made up. i am not happy in my marriage.
2007-03-05
05:30:13 ·
update #2
One possibility:
You say you are "not happy in your marriage". This is probably the most significant part of your message - even though you put it last. You also say you always dream of "other men, not your husband".
Perhaps you have had fleeting "thoughts" about other men before, but pushed these thoughts underneath. (I assume you have been faithful in your marriage, given the content of your message.)
You also say the c-u-m of these other men has a very bad odor to it. This has the effect of making you even less inclined to think of sex outside your marriage. (Meaning = sex outside the marriage is "bad".)
Conclusion: Perhaps deep down, you have a desire for more love & sexual fulfillment...... but your guilt & loyalty is sending you this dream to "scare" you into repressing those desires, and to not seek them from other men.
This conflict may be at the heart of how torn you feel inside your marriage.
Of course, I'm not a dream interpreter, so you'll have to decide for yourself if this is it or not!!!!
I wish you all the best
2007-03-05 07:14:00
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answered by sky2evan 3
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Well, it could a number of things.
It could be that, if you have had sex (or been around people who have had sex), it could be your brain is accessing the 'smell' when it dreams about sex. Its kinda like seeing a picture of a hot dog and your brain 'accessing' the memory of the last hot dog you ate, the worst hot dog you ate, or the best hot dog you ate.
If you have never had sex, or been around people who have had sex (in other words, no first-hand knowledge of what a man's come smells like) then the most likely answer is that it is a psychological response to either sex itself or the man's role in it.
In that case, it could smell 'bad' because:
a) someone told you thats what it smelled like, so your mind creates a 'bad' smell to go along with the dream
b) you think sex 'right now' is bad, and therefore the 'bad' smell is to remind you that what is going on is 'bad'
c) anytime you have had sex, you have regretted it, and the 'bad' smell is simply your mind's way of saying that the experience left a bad 'impression' on you
Any of the above reasons would also explain why the smell is consistently bad in every dream. If it is psychological, or even a combination of physical/psychological, because you haven't resolved the 'issue' the dream brings up, it keeps bringing it up in the same way as a means of letting you know what is going on.
If you don't take out the garbage, for example, it starts to smell. Well, if you ignore it, the smell won't go away or get any 'less strong'. In fact, everytime you go back to where it is sitting at, it smells the same (or worse) as a way to remind you to do something about it, since you didn't do anything about it earlier.
I am not suggesting (or ruling out) anything bad, but the example of the garbage is a simple way to understand how the mind works.
2007-03-05 13:33:23
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answered by Khnopff71 7
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A) was the first time you tasted c-u-m a bad event for you?
B) did that time taste lousy to you?
C) was your guy hygenically and medically clean?
Hope the memory of it is not leaving a bad taste in your mouth, so to speak.
It is said that what a man eats can affect the taste. Talk with your partner about it. Read literature on the subject. Maybe the fear of it always being that way will fade.
2007-03-05 13:28:16
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answered by donkey hotay 3
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Have you ever read a dream book? I would say that it probably means nothing of what you would think it does. It sound like maybe you fear of something, it might even be nonsexual. Or maybe you feel something doesnt quite smell right in your life.
You should check one out you might be suprised at the results.
2007-03-05 13:33:04
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answered by Lucky 4
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Uhmm..that is a very odd dream..are you with someone right now that you want to be intimate with? Or is there someone out there that you like and want to be that way with? Maybe it's a sign that you should stay away from them..that's all I can really think of.
2007-03-05 13:26:33
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answered by Katelynn 2
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If you have never engaged in sexual activity:
You are only trying to imagine what the experience will be like.
If you have engaged in sexual activity:
You might be feeling guilty about your choice of partners and the activities involved in your latest sexual encounters.
2007-03-05 13:27:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm sorry, I usually don't dream about that stuff.
2007-03-05 13:24:07
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answered by nowyouknow 7
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