hello every one i'm 25 years old and i started to go with men 2 years ago at the moment i have a girl friend but some time i can't have sex with her, what shall i do to stop thinking of guys?
2007-03-05 05:17:53 · 8 answers · asked by Mileon 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no "cure" for your problem. If you are physically attracted to the same sex, you are gay. It is not something that will just go away. You can go to a counselor and discuss your problems, and get a better understanding of yourself.
Then again you can receive religious counseling, in which they will tell you that you are wrong in your feelings, and temporarily you will be "cured" until you come to the realization that the attraction has never left you.
One thing that I truly suggest is please do not get married and have children while you are doubting your sexuality.
2007-03-05 05:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by will s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oohhh, err..... This is a controversial one!
There ARE groups set up to help gay people, but most medical professionals have stated that homosexuality is non-reversible, and the vast majority of medical and major organisations reject these ex-gay groups.
Still, there are some people who have used there groups and swear they are now "cured". Exodus international is probably the most well known of these groups, but many more exist.
These groups employ techniques such as group counselling, seeking non-sexual male relationships, experimenting with more traditional male activities, reliving the pain of being different, and working on "Oedipal, enmeshment, and early abandonment" issues. Because these groups are almost always run by churches, there is typically A strong emphasis on religion, from confessing your "sins" to bible study.
If you chose to go with this option, be warned; you will meet a LOT of resistance from the gay community, and you are going to want alot of willpower to get through it, regardless of if you become ex-gay or not.
Lastly, for my own sake, I'd like to point out: I am VERY MUCH against this, I just want to give you information.
Good luck anyway. Hope you find the peace in yourself you desire.
2007-03-05 13:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Xavier 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing. You cannot change your natural, inborn sexual orientation.
Places that offer "cures" are happy to take your money and make your life miserable. They will do nothing about changing your orientation.
You should learn to love who you were created to be. There's no time limit - take all the time you need. Some people take an entire lifetime.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 14:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to change your sexuality?
Honestly, just accept yourself for who you are. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being gay. I don't care what religions say about it being "sinful" and I don't care what closed-minded homophobes say about it being "disgusting". Be proud to be who you are. There really is no sense in changing your sexuality or anything else about yourself for the purpose of conforming to society.
2007-03-05 15:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by SheIsDeath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor little soul. I predict a very unhappy life ahead of you. However, I do see the ability to improve your grammar in the future.
2007-03-05 14:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should you fight who you are? Perhaps you're bi?
If you're having trouble accepting who you are, perhaps talk to a therapist to get the tools you need to find and accept yourself.
2007-03-05 13:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one reputable.
2007-03-05 13:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are none.
2007-03-05 13:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋