Why do people resort to homosexuality?

Question

I honestly have no idea why any one would do such a sickening thing! I would like to know why from some one with first hand experience. Call me crazy.

Answer 1

I'm not gay but I have a brother who practices homosexuality. From what I can tell, no one is born Gay. Some people have a dispostion to not be typically like their gender norms as defined by thier culture. But then what happens, especially in our society is that they start getting teased, they start becoming rejecting by friends and family (particular same sex parent) and then they start thinking things like "I must be gay because I don't act like the typical boy/girl, and then they start to believe the Lie that people around them have told them for years. There is nothing natural about men being with men and women with women. There is a comort that they experience with same gender because of what they have been told and their "feelings". Our 'feelings' are known to be wrong quite often. But I will continue to pray for these individuals and so should you.

Answer 2

No one "resorts" to homosexuality, the are born homosexual. You can criticize me as much as you want, but I am gay and I think I have a little more experience on the subject. I agree that it is very hard to understand the concept of homosexuality. You are straight; obviously that is why it seems so "sickening." As a gay person, I can't imagine being heterosexual. It just doesn't seem normal. Hope this helps you understand homosexuality a little bit better.

Answer 3

Firstly i assume that you have never tried it, so how can you call it "sickening"? If i've never tried McDonalds before, how can I can it sickening? I'm not saying you should try it, but i do think you are using the wrong words to express your question.

Homosexuality is not just a thing you do, it's something that comes natural to you, it's something you prefer doing...

I am proudly gay and not ashamed of it, because that is who I am and i feel comfortable with it! I certainly don't call straight people "sick". I respect their choice and would like to be treated the same.

I feel more comfortable with women, I enjoy their company more and certainly find them more attractive. I have dated men before and was really unhappy, after coming out I have been the happiest person in the world.

Call me crazy, but I think you want to experiement, I think you are confused and doubt your sexuality and therefore want answers.
Forgive me if I am wrong, but i just got this feeling from the way you asked your question.

If you really want to know why I am doing such a sickening thing, as you call it, pls feel free to email me at [e-mail]. I think it can be a very interesting conversation as i would like to know why you call it "sickening".

Answer 4

Hi, Crazy! I'm Xavier!
I wouldn't call it "resorting" to homosexuality, it's really more of a calling. I mean, only a certain few find homosexuality sickening. And it's so much easier to make out with people you understand. how many heterosexuals do you know that say, "I just don't understand men/women"? Well, I get men. Because I am a man.

Actually, why do so many more people resort to heterosexuality? Is it just because you want to make like sheep and follow the norm, or is it that you have some deeprooted love of putting yourself through pain? Why would anyone want straight sex? It's so sickening!!! I just want to know.
Call me Xavier, k?

Answer 5

First of all, don't insult that which you don't understand. It makes you appear to be, for lack of a better word, an idiot.

Second, it's a matter of attraction. No one can necessarily help who they're attracted to. Are you telling me that never, in all your Jr. High/high school days, did you like someone (of the OPPOSITE sex) that you didn't particularly want to like, maybe because you'd be ridiculed for dating the person or something to that effect?

Obviously, people don't CHOOSE who they are attracted to. I am bisexual. It's really hard to explain what attracts me to other girls. I jokingly tell my friends, "they've got the lips and the hips and they know how to use 'em, how could anyone resist?" But as I said, that's jokingly. It's hard to pinpoint exactly what it is that draws me to other girls. I remember being about 13 years old and seeing girls and thinking, "wow, she's hot," or they'd do something "cute" and it would be like a 5-second crush because of it. I've always thought lesbians were hot. Things like that, and I'd always tell myself, "stop it, straight girls don't think like this!" But eventually I realized that it was just a part of me, and I accepted it and moved on.

Answer 6

Okay, you're crazy. I didn't resort to being gay. I really have been that way all my life. To you it's sickening because you are an opinionated bigot. Get a grip on reality. What I do in the privacy of my own home is really none of your or anybody's business.

Answer 7

I think being with a man is disgusting (no offense... but I'm lesbian!).
Go figure.
And yes, I'll call you crazy.
Try to accept that other people are different than you. That's what makes the world interesting. Some differences are more noticable than others, but that doesn't make it wrong. Who someone loves or has sex with is their own business, not something that they're asking your opinion on. If it disgusts you, ignore it.

Answer 8

No one resorts to homosexuality the same way no one resorts to heterosexuality. You are who you are and I am who I am. Although I think women are great people, the thought of having sex with one is very unappealing.

Answer 9

I don't think it is anything one chooses. Many people believe it starts very young when children are to indentity with their same gendered parent. When a child is about one, a boy will usually wear his dads big boots and tries to walk. He likes his dads things and vice versa for girls. Some believe that this somehow get confused for homosexuals .
Also children have to make the switch at an early age, especially boys because they are usually taken care of by their mothers. They have to relate and bond to the male identity. Again some believe this gets confused. There are many groups that help to identify this as young as possible and resolve it.

Answer 10

Your question implies that homosexuality is a desperate choice. It is not. Homosexuals grow up knowing they are different some how, but often are not able to pinpoint what that difference is until later in life. They do not fit the general stereotype of the boys or girls around them. They are physically attracted to the same sex, for reasons unknown to them. They are unable to change themselves to conform to "normal" standards of attraction. They often hate themselves for being different, wishing they could force themselves to be sexually interested in the opposite sex. Some homosexuals attempt to do this, denying how they really feel to themselves, their families, and their friends. They are terrified of being who they are, and they adopt a facade to hide it. They date, get married, and have children. Some live their entire lives without having one single homosexual encounter, even though it is what they honestly desire.

A growing number of homosexuals have decided that it is better to be themselves, openly, where they have the opportunity to meet people like themselves, fall in love, and live happy lives, rather than "resort" to living a life in hiding, denying themselves, and missing the chance to be happy. Even for these individuals, a large percentage would never "choose" this lifestyle. They would rather avoid the hatred, revulsion, and character judgement from society at large. Wouldn't you?

Answer 11

Ok Crazy, since clearly you are not sane. No one resorts to homosexuality, we are born with our sexuality, just as you were born with yours. Now before you or any other 'genius' out there starts spouting off that there's no proof of being born homosexual, allow me to point out there is. We, gay people, are the proof. We KNOW we were born this way. If you doubt that, then please offer proof of people being born heterosexual and not choosing it. Finally, the only thing you find sickening is the reach around since most people know heterosexual couples practise anal sex as much as gays do.

So smarten up.