lateley when i have been drinking i wake up to find out from my husband some awful mean things i have said while i was drunk i didnt mean any of the bad things i have said or told him and now he questains my love for him, i realize i must have a problem with drinking but i dont remember saying or doing the crazy things he tell me i have done...i dont remember any of it or how i even got to bed, nothing, when i drink i feel like i must snap or something, has this happened to anybody out there, i feel very hurt knowing i have hurt my husband and family like this...makes me want to drink again to cover the pain, i know if i do i coiuld loose the very best girt of my life my husband! i really need help..he says when people are drunk they tell the truth but that is so farfetched from the truth i dont even know what i did only what he has told me i and i know it must be true i said those things cuz i suffer from major hangovers i. i l,ove my family and i want to stop drinking. i'm depressedl
2007-03-05 05:04:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not have to quit drinking all together but you definatly need to limit your self. You are not suppose to be drinking to get drunk and out of control that is where your problem is coming in. You need to slow down and find your limit. When you are buzzin and havin fun slow down a bit or switch to something weaker. This way you will be able to enjoy the whole night as well as remember it. If doing this is even a problem you might need to stop drinking or limit your self to one or two. It is no fun if you are hurting the ones you love. Good luck and Good health to you and yours!
2007-03-05 05:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please...get help! My boyfriend is an alcoholic and he drinks nightly. When he is sober he is the best man in the world and once that drink kicks in he is horrible to say the least. He does not remember being awful to me but trust me he is. His words have scared me severely and I questions his love for me constantly. If you love your family do whatever you can to make things right. Drinking to cover the pain will only make it worse because as with any addiction ignoring the problem does not make it go away. Take it from someone who is almost to the point of leaving someone they love with all their heart........ the person on the other side of your alcoholic tirades can only take the madness for so long and then they come to a point where enough is enough. Please for your sake and the sake of your family do the right thing. It's tough, but losing your family would be way worse!
2007-03-05 05:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE call AA or a rehab center. You are on the ledge, dont jump. Like others have stated, admitting your problem and you are powerless to stop is the first step in recovery. It will be a long tough road, but you can get through it and live life one day at a time alcohol and drug free. You will start to grow again emotionally and spirtually. I could go on, but you would not understand everything just yet. Join AA and work a 12 step program. I promise it works and you will find peace and serenity. Good luck!
2007-03-05 05:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to drink a lot. It got me in a lot of trouble. That's why I don't drink anymore at all. I've seen how drinking affects my family and friends too. Lately I have seen how my friends act like idiots when they drink. Alcohol abuse also has led to a lot of violence in my life, my friends lives and my families lives. You need help bad. Don't let alcohol ruin your life and your marriage. Get help. Find something that will help you deal with that pain in your life. Something constructive and not destructive. The first step is admitting you have a problem. Then you need to want help. Then you need to get help. Take one step and day at a time. Next you really have to ask yourself if you want to change. If not you are just wasting your time and everybody elses. Find something or somebody to cheer you up. You need positive reinforcement. I've been sober for almost 23 years. But I had to make up my mind that I was sick of it. I wanted to change. Do you want to change? Get help or you will end up like another statistic.
2007-03-05 05:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by jesus_lover1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go seek professional help - a medical doctor first and then maybe AAA. Most people would live happier lives without drinking anything but water! My sister was an alcoholic for 20 years and calls it "the devil's brew"! God has promised to help each of us if we will ask. See 1 Peter 5:6,7 and Mark 9:23.
2007-03-05 05:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be depressed. If you love your husband and family then you need to stop. Alcohol doesn't cure anything or remove anything other than loved ones who don't want to deal with it anymore. Alcohol has no positive outlook. I would question your loyalty as well. Before you lose everything and everyone you need to find some way to rid yourself of your alcoholism. Is this the kind of example you want to set for your family?
2007-03-05 05:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery. Seek help and call AA or a therapist and marriage counseling.
Alcohol amplifies problems although at first it may seem it covers the pain. What ever anger you have toward your husband is coming out amplified when you are drinking.
Good luck.
2007-03-05 05:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you have problems with alcohol. I'd stop drinking and look for help before things get way out of control.
2007-03-05 05:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by baryymahoginer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have done/said some really stupid things drunk....you need to stop drinking....I myself have never been a big drinker but yes, I have been a mean big mouth drunk before...and didn't remember any of it.....
2007-03-05 05:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go check yourself into a hospital and become detoxed. They will consult you and help you get all the help you need to beat the devil that is sitting on your shoulder... Good luck I hope you make it...Your worth more than that stupid bottle of booze.
2007-03-05 05:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by lynda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋