I have a problem, ive been a virgin until i was 25, and im 25 now. But my issue is intercourse feels GREAT, but idk if im not relaxing enough or whats going on but it takes me FOREVER to reach my peak ( ask in orgasming ) Theres nothing wrong with the way he preforms. I just wanted some tips on how i can make it better, im not sure if i tense up or if im not relaxed or if im just not easily satisfied? Whats your thoughtts whats happened with you in the past and what have you dont to make it better? He had no issue getting off it just sometimes i do and sometimes i dont, even if i dont it still feels GREAT, but id like to fully get the full effect.. please help me !
2007-03-05 05:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by Honest lady 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Be thrilled, some women never get off during intercourse. Women just naturally take longer it seems like, although you can do things to get in the mood like role playing, watching porn, dressing up, trying 'naughty' things, etc. etc. Just realize though, that the thrusting motion of intercourse is more conducive to the guy getting off than the girl. We need clitoral stimulation, and so adding that might help too (get a small vibrator, like the laya spot by fun factory). Depending on your mood too, will affect how long it takes you to get off. Anyhow, you are getting the full effect already, congrats!!
2007-03-05 05:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Vida 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are like that... go online and research... one site that I found when I was first started out was http://www.howtohavegoodsex.com it explains a lot about how to control your orgasms. You can, it just takes some work.
2007-03-05 13:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by toneslilsweettease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his angle of penetration doesn't trigger you off, elevate your body, put a pillow under you.
2007-03-05 13:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Goldfish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay,spend more time on it so you be good and ready.
2007-03-05 13:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋