2007-03-05 04:46:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Exercise with her. I bet she thinks you are a fatty as well, so it will be good for both of you.
2007-03-05 04:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
My wife went from 130 to 260 in ten years of marriage, always talked about losing weight and even made a couple of attempts, but after we got divorced - she has lost 60 lbs in 7 months and still losing weight and working out. Marriage sometimes makes people a little lazy and they let themselves go. It was depression and a child that brought on the weight gain. Maybe try to work out with her - politely though. Good Luck
2007-03-05 04:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
It's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than to get your wife to execise.
The more you try, the more she doesn't excersise.
She has to want to do it. Unfortunately, some women don't exercise until they are looking for husband #2.
2007-03-05 04:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
Your wife may be overweight but she's still the same person on the inside. She will lose weight when she's determined to do so, not because you think she should. When she does lose weight, she should be doing it for herself not for you. She'll be healthier & will love how good the weight loss makes her feel, mentally & physically. The support from family, friends, & of course...YOU...is very important. I hope you don't call your wife "fatty" to her face. That is so hurtful & disrespectful.
2007-03-05 04:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Well, first off why are calling your wife, the woman you love, a fatty? Geez! Encourage her but don't call her names, that's just mean. Poor woman.....she should kick your azz to the curb! She's still the same woman and you obviously loved her enough to marry her so quit being a jerk and gently encourage, set an example but don't call names! Shame on you!
Name calling is saved for people who don't like someone, not for the ones we love....
Tori
2007-03-05 04:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Incognito 6 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Just kinda average... God bless you. Half the divorces in this country could be avoided if the world just listened to what you are saying. Why do the women here feel like they gotta defend the fatty's?
2007-03-05 05:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Go on walks with her - maybe you will learn some manners and why your wife apparently overeats, and she can see you do care and will stop overeating.
2007-03-05 05:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kalanthy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all i think you are a self absorbed moron to say some thing like that about your own wife. Secondly if you want to get her to exercise just ask her to go walking with you sometime. Don't tell her she needs to exercise because it might hurt her feelings. Make it a positive thing that you do together.
2007-03-05 04:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by katiekaboom25 2 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Your such a charmer! I see why your wife married you.
Why don't you exercise with her. Take her on walks in the park, go swimming, join a gym together, etc. You know, you can b*tch about her weight or you can be supportive and try to help her.
BTW - Try not to speak when you help her. I think your strong suit may actually be NON-verbals. Of course you could fail in that too.
2007-03-05 05:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 3⤊ 5⤋
I am sure you don't call her a fatty to her face. It is really sad how many woman let themselves go and ruin their lives and their husband's life too. I wish I could feel sorry for them, but I don't. They do it to themselves and most have no reason.
2007-03-05 05:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋