Well, I am not gay...or perhaps I just think I am not...but I find it very hard to get a girlfriend, so I don't know what to do. People often tell me that I am very good looking, and I think I have other advantages, but I just can't find a girl.
What do you think? :)
Thanks
2007-03-05 04:05:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What do I think about what? Your sexuality?! It doesn't make you gay just because you can't get a girlfriend. Try being friendlier with girls and maybe they'll react.
2007-03-05 04:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There were times when I could'nt find a girl. Everyone goes through dry periods. I would'nt have a girl one month, then the next month I could'nt beat them off with a stick. It happens, give it time and she will come. Don't think you're gay just cause you can't get a girl right now. In my hard times I never would have thought I was gay, cause I'm not. You just be yourself and be nice to the ladies and you'll be the spice around town!
2007-03-05 12:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dane Cruz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do I think?
I think tis is the wrong thread to ask this question.
I think you're straight.
I think you'd be best off getting to be friends with the girls and progressing from there.
I think interesting boys that can hold interesting conversation are more likely to pick up.
I think all girls (And boys) look for different things in their partner.
I think there's not one way to e more attractive.
I think if you change to attract girls, you'll either have a hard time ahead staying different, or you'll lose then whan they find out you're not who they thought you were.
I think normal people do have difficulty finding "The one".
I think you should keep faith in yourself, don't give up.
2007-03-05 12:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Gay isn't not being able to land a girlfriend. Gay is preferring to land a guy.
I think you need to read more so that you're a more interesting person, and you need to not try so hard to GET a girlfriend and concentrate more on BEING a friend. And widen your circle, go to church, join clubs, get on a civic committee or at least attend their meetings. If it's meant to happen, it will.
2007-03-05 12:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're not looking in the right places. They're out there. Start a converstion. Talk to them. Be a gentleman. You'll find one or three.
2007-03-05 12:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I you are having trouble meeting girls try these.If you have male friends, hang out with them and make contacts. Join a class or club. Try online dating if you are older.Try speed dating.
If you are meeting them and not getting a second date, then look at how you are presenting yourself. Try being a friend. Listen to them.
2007-03-05 12:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Marg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're attracted to women, then you're straight. Not finding a girlfriend has nothing to do with your sexuality, you just didn't find the right person.
2007-03-05 12:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't understand why you're speculating about being 'perhaps gay', because you're unable to find a girlfriend? Just keep looking, maybe it's your personality.
if you're attracted to girls and worried about not being able to find one, you're probably not gay.
2007-03-05 12:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by robert2020 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to get a girlfirend, shouldn't you ask the girls for advice? I mean, we actually know what we want. But if you want a boyfriend, then continue with your question because I read it wrong.
2007-03-05 12:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirt more dont try to be ther friend try to be there boy friend .... more sexual
2007-03-05 12:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋