2007-03-05 03:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by soto_a81 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I have 3 boys, 6, 5 and 20 months and twin girls on the way too, I have no idea, but I just wanted you to know you arn't alone. I just plan on not worrying about the house (easier said than done) and trying to remember that it is not my childrens fault that I will be tired and grumpy and to make sure that they don't suffer because I am exhausted. I am just trying to keep those two thoughts on the forefront of my brain. We can sleep in a few years right?
2007-03-05 03:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sane? What's sane? Just kidding(sort of). I have a 4yr old girl , a 2yr old boy & twin 3 1/2 month girls. Don't be afraid to ask for help. If you are a member of a church, ask your pastor's wife if
she can round up a few volunteer ladies to take turns bringing you dinner or some quick, easy, throw-in-the-oven meals, help
with cleaning house, or just to take your son for a few hours of
much needed rest/relaxation. It does get a little easier after you
get into a routine! I'm a stay at home mom, so as soon as the
weather is nicer, I plan to find other local moms to have playdates with for my kids! Good luck!
2007-03-05 04:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by mom-of-4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how you can stay calm or relaxed with these issues, or why you'd try to. But you should stay sane.
Do everything you can to prepare for this, then enjoy the ride.
Also keep in mind that the first one is always the hardest, because you have to learn a lot of stuff, after that you've learned the basic parenting skills and you just need to apply them, so you're most of the way there.
2007-03-05 03:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone offers help, TAKE IT. Have some time to yourself any chance you get. Sleep when they all sleep, try and keep them on the same schedule. Just try and relax, get your husband/boyfriend to watch the baby while you soak in the tub, or do whatever you can to relax. Go for long walks with the kids on a nice sunny day. And good luck.
2007-03-05 03:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by ladidadida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you already know, since you have a son, being a parent is work, but it is definitely worth it! I would say, if you are married, go out and let hubby watch the kids every once in a while and get manicure & pedicure! If you are not married, get family and friends to help! Maybe have someone to come over & watch the kids while you take a warm bubble bathe! Take care of your kids, but remember if you don't take care of your self, you won't have the energy to take care of them!
2007-03-05 03:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by tawannajones2217@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Routine! Feed the twins at the same time to keep them to the same schedule, sod ALL housework and take any offers of help you can. Take turns with your partner for breaks so at least one of you is fresh (ish) and remember it wont be hectic forever. Good luck x
2007-03-05 04:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no sanity for parents of twins! Trust me..get sleep now before the baby comes...and learn how to feed them at the same time. (I tried to feed my twins seperatly...i was a zombie..literally!) I have no help so..just do your best and sleep whenever you can! It gets better eventually!
2007-03-05 08:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your partner helps you with your daily chores such as cleaning and cooking (if you normally do these things) and be sure to go out with your partner every now and again just the two of you. Every parent needs a break sometimes.
2007-03-05 04:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for guidance There is much power in prayer and guidance . Expect and insist that your mate, hub, etc., step up and contribute to the upbringing of these delightful gifts from God and keep the faith , even in the darkness of our perception light still exists when we can't see it
2007-03-05 03:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 15 month old twins and love it. My husband and I have a blast with our boys. Routine is very important and also your MARRIAGE!!! Make time for yourselves.
Good Luck!
2007-03-05 10:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ms A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋