There's this group of guy friends at work, and they go hunting, fishing, snowmobiling, all that other fun stuff together. I share my stories all the time with them and try and add little hints that I'd like to come along too sometime since I really enjoy spending time at the lake and on my ATVs and everything... Being a girl.. if that has anything to do with it... I was wondering if there was a reason that they haven't invited me with them.. Like maybe the "guys' night out" type of thing... I dunno, what do you guys think? Be honest, please
2007-03-05 03:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by Chibi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK, let me tell you that the very first thing a man will think about it is that you want some sex with him...or them. Now, if you really want to go, you better engage on of the guys only, so you will be his company, and no everybody company..you got It?.....if you do not want to engage one of the guys and still want to go, better get another bunch of girls with you.......now, if you cannot do that, and you really want to enjoy the sport part of it, you have to make it very clear to them.......and I mean it, very clear....you want to go for the sport and nothing else.........i do not even think about going wearing spandex or shorts, because the guy will think otherwise.
2007-03-05 03:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys act a certain way around guys and a certain way around the ladies. They might be afraid that it will really cramp their style by taking you or they may not be taking you seriously.
Let me ask you, have you ever cut a loud one around them? Did a pull my finger number on one of them? That sort of thing is going to happen on a guys night out. There is a lot of guy behavior you probably not privy to. If they start looking at you as one of the guys, expect to be treated as such.
2007-03-05 11:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a "Brokeback" type trip and girls just aren't invited? LOL KIDDING...Um, it's possible that if one or more of the guys have girlfriends, but their girlfriends don't go on the trips, it may upset them if you go...Why don't you bite the bullet and invite yourself? Make a joke of it...Ask them if they need someone to carry the equipment because you'd really like to go with them...Good luck
2007-03-05 11:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by blamb! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey..its a guy thing...pitcure yourself going away with the girls..and then there's BOB...think about it
2007-03-05 11:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know if they take any girls with them? i mean their g/f. looks like a guys dayout... or just ask them can i join u guys?
2007-03-05 11:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋