Ok I met this great guy, hes sweet and very cute. The thing is I am 20 and I have never been in a relationship. I really think things could develop more with this guy. I am nervous but dont want to push him away like I have with other guys in the past. I mean do I tell him I dont have expiernace with relationships and eventually that I am a virgin? I dont want to move fast and hes a sweet guy who I doubt would pressure me.
2007-03-05 02:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
is he going to think I am weird that Ive never had a boyfriend.
2007-03-05 02:58:12 · update #1
Oh My God You Sweet Precious Thing!! If he disrespects you for being a Virgin -let me know please! My neice has spent 9-years in college is getting out this spring -getting married and she is a virgin and 27. Thank God - Thank God almighty there is still some self-respect and somebody wamting a special night with another person who has earned their respect by not pressuring them. Her guy has stuck with her now for 3-years, she is beautiful and he knows it's worth the wait. She had the talk with him and told him straight out she was not that kind of girl, she wanted to wait until she got married and it be her first. She is getting her wish- I respect him somuch for waiting on her. He's the only guy out of 100 I know lately that is so respectful of her feelings- and the family, we all love him for that. He's earned my respect-cause that's my baby-girl. Respect- if he cares he'll respcet your feelings. if not let him fly honey-let him fly. Oh! and don't string him along -get it over with fast -tell him straight up. Leave the rest up to him.
2007-03-05 03:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have all been where you are, you are extremely nervous and want to make all the right decisions and be as perfect as you can. Just be yourself, and don't compromise who you are for this guy. Hold fast the purity that you have now, and keep strong. Just coming off past experience, you say that the guy won't pressure you, just remember that he is a guy and it is hard for us guys. Try to maintain balance in this relationship and do not fall into temptation, it will only bring grief and sorrow.
2007-03-05 11:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From your description, I think he's the guy for you. You don't have to admit anything. Go with the flow. A guy who's sweet will understand.
2007-03-05 11:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Vaingy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, it's ok!
i have a friend, and for 25 yrs, he's never been into relationship, but then he met this cute girl, and voila!he's ok!
just go with the flow, if he's the one for you, he'll like for who you are.
but remember to change ur bad habit too, it's good for you and ur relationship.
2007-03-05 11:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by tiang_li 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and enjoy his company. No matter what happens, you will always remember your first love. Please do not push yourself to be in a relationship. If he is sincere about you, he will not be pushed away by you if you are not ready.
2007-03-05 11:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋