At times I dought about our love because he was doing drugs he told me he quit but how do u know he really did and i would hate to find out later in life after we get maried that he is still doing drugs. I have two chioces either my parents or the person i think i love.What should i Do?
2007-03-05 02:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by SexY MamA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to choose between your parents and the druggie lowlife you "think" (your word) you love, and this is a hard choice? Grow some common sense, listen to your parents, and drop the loser.
2007-03-05 03:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take these kinds of chances with your future. If you must marry this guy, get your tubes tied, because you have no business bringing children into the world with a drug using dad. You can't trust a drug abuser. They will lie to your face. Your parents obviously have your best interest at heart. There are literally millions of guys out there. Why do you feel the need to settle for one who has the potential to cause such grief? You don't even know if you love him.
2007-03-05 03:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How LONG has he been clean? DO NOT RUSH INTO THIS MARRIAGE. Make sure he has overcome his drug problems; once an addict ALWAYS an addict; it takes effort to stay clean. He has to change his lifestyle - INCLUDING his friends, or he will be right back in the same habit.
If he has remained clean for at least a year and has made new friends who do NOT use drugs, wait one more year before getting married. That will give you time to tell whether or not he truly has changed, and to KNOW whether or not you love him. If you only THINK you do, you are NOT ready to get married anyway!
2007-03-05 03:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm certain you want him plenty, yet he sounds like a jackass to me. you're merely twenty. certain, the volume sounds like you're mature adequate, yet you're likely no longer. you opt for to ask him if, at your age, he would have moved out from his dad and mom homestead (or everywhere) to be with an older lady? i understand that gender transformations this thoroughly, because dad and mom are extra overprotective with females than they're with boys. Your dad and mom have and continually will be there for you. you've merely merely met this guy compared to how lengthy you're dad and mom have time-honored you. They understand you better than you understand your self, and so that they understand what is going to be better for you. Your guy calling you a baby is the way he sees you and data that he has no note of for you. If he extremely cared, he does no longer possibility dropping you via asking you to make certain. also, you may want to be extra open along with your dad and mom.
2016-11-27 23:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by cordell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you said you "think I love", secound do you want to be a crack hoe, there has got to be reason your parents don't like him, step up to the plate and ask your parents to have an adult(you're 20) conversation about your possible choices in life. you're dad propaly want go for this but your mom should give you some good advise.
2007-03-05 03:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents they know you and they can see an view of your boyfriend that you cant see through your emotion. At the age of 19 you may not see what they see. Dont battle with them over this because no good can come of it. Enjoy your boyfriend and see what happens over the summer. Your pretty young yet to be this serious.
2007-03-05 03:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be sooooo wonderful if all parents approved of your man! NOT going to happen- sorry! Its normal though! Parents always think we deserve better. IT IS NOT YOUR PARENTS who will be living with this guy- or marrying him- its YOU! This is your life and your future- follow your heart and always hang on to the man you love more than life itself! My father was a doctor and my mother a teacher and they were soooo upset when I didnt marry a lawyer or doctor- I married a WELDER and Ive been happily married for 21 years now!!!!
2007-03-05 03:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand your parents and why they don't approve. Why marry a drug addict. Set your standards a little higher honey, and maybe you will get what you really want.
2007-03-05 03:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by BigAndBeautiful 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dump him or suffer through life...your choice.
2007-03-05 02:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt...get the hell out.
You don't sound convience either.
2007-03-08 10:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋