how do you know a guy likes you? i'm not all that pretty (like at all, i got glasses and zits). but there's this boy i like. he's not very popular, tall and lanky, plays the trombone. but very outgoing. we';re friends, and he always chooses to be next to me and puts me on his team (when we're playing sports with the other teenagers). and all, but how do i know if he likes me. please don't be sarcastic or say "just ask him". i'm 15 and he's almost `15, but he looks 16.
2007-03-05 02:36:03 · 17 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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we have another frien Liz, the 3 of us are a trio. once she just came up to me and said "this is one of those weird and wacky questions i ask sometimes, but if david asked you out would you go with him?" and after i answered (with a maybe, cause i didn't really want to tell her, the only ones that know i like him are my sibs). she just walked away. a clue?
2007-03-05 02:52:24 · update #1
It's What's INSIDE that counts, not what you look like on the outside* Sounds like he likes you also, and wants to be near you..if you both are "shy"..you'll have to let on more that you like him by showing him...Meaning...talk to him on msn messenger or yahoo messenger....spend more time at school with him when you can...just have fun as "friends"...and when the time is right* he will ask you out to a show or skating...or school dance* March break(Spring break) is coming up...perhaps you, he and some of your mutual friends you chill with and play sports with...can all hook up to go skating or to a show ...perfect time to know for sure if he likes you alot* At 14/15yrs of age...he may be nervous wondering if you really like him or are even interested in him. When talking to him, ask things like what music he likes...tell him he plays the trombone good (if you've heard him play)...what sports he likes or even what was the last movie he saw or what movie he is Wanting to see...if you really want to see it too and let him know (omg i saw the previews and that looks like it's going to be a great movie)...perhaps THEN he may ask...do you want to go see it with me? Perfect opportunity* But for now....get to know him better....sometimes easier over messenger...but Do not communicate through MySpace* I hear from alot of ppl it causes nothing but problems* GoodLuck* Keep on Smilin* Beauty is from within*~
2007-03-05 02:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello -- He definately likes you. Meaning that he thinks you are a fun person to hang out with and a good person to pick for sports teams. So you have a great friend! It could turn into more, but only time will tell.
My suggestion is to continue to be friends and just be yourself. Don't put pressure on the friendship by asking "those" kinds of questions. It will make him feel nervous and maybe even scare him off. Just keep on having fun and hanging out, and if he "likes" you in a more romantic way, eventually he'll ask you out when he gets up the nerve to do that.
Good luck, and have a great year at school!
2007-03-05 10:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by lallypopv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to do something. That is a sure fire way. trust me, guys love it when a girl asks him to do something. Totally approach it as a friend that wants to find out more about someone, not as a date. It kills two birds. A. If he does like you, then you get to hang out with him. B. If he doesn't like you, you can move on. But, don't judge too hard on his first reaction. He might not have a lot of "getting asked out" experience, so if he is a little awkward about it, as you might be, don't take that as a negative. Just work through any awkwardness together, with humor. I hope it goes well.
2007-03-05 10:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by The doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop telling yourself that you're not pretty. What's wrong with glasses?? And most kids your age have at least some acne! No big deal.
Since he appears to be your friend anyway, why don't you ask him on a friendly "date", like to a Saturday afternoon movie? I know it's easier said than done....but at least you'd know then!! Good luck!
2007-03-05 11:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you. He sounds shy.
Ask him to do something woth you. Nothing dramatic and don't make a big deal of it. He'll say "yes" and you can spend a little time getting closer to each other.
Don't put pressure on yourselves. Just enjoy your time together. The rest follows naturally. In fact, the harder you try, the harder it is.
And most of all, stop thinking of yourself as being unattractive. I'll bet your pimples against my fat legs that he thinks you're cute.
2007-03-05 11:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Terence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to enjoy the attention. Don't let your questions ruin something that may just be someone trying to make you feel a part of something. You will have many boyfriends in the future. Enjoy the ride.
2007-03-05 10:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he is interested in you. Try encouraging it. Be open and ask him questions about himself-see how he responds. can you invite him to something, a school play or event? could start as friends and end up more-Good Luck.
2007-03-05 10:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im a guy and i like a girl, and with a guy like me i would do what ever i could to get next to her so since when your playing your games when he picks you he probably just wnts to get next to you get contacts and maybe a zit removeal creame thats what I do and now the girls always want to be around me even Nikki
2007-03-05 11:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by yo dude wats up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt, he likes you. How can you tell???? Well, why else would he go through all that trouble for you? You are obviously an honest, down to earth person and with all those "all about me" girls running around, who wouldn't appreciate that? Congratulations on your soon-to-be boyfriend!!!
2007-03-05 10:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be comfortable around him, be fun and HAPPY and smile when he says something amusing. Ask him questions about himself - do you play any other instruments? How long have you been playing? Try to tell him about your interests, "my friends and I went ice skating on sunday, etc"....
After you've become friends, say something like "hey, me and a few people are going to the football game on saturday, do you want to come along or met us there"....be CASUAL about it. and if he says he has plans just shrug, and continue to be happy and comfortable.
(i'm 24 and married to a wonderful man - the best advice I can give is to be happy with yourself, inside and out, and be pleasant to be around...unlike those other girls who are fixated on how they look...)
2007-03-05 10:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by APV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋