serious question
2007-03-05 02:29:54 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it only seems sad when you start noticing all the couples around you or on those lonely nights that you wish you had someone there. Know that the age has nothing to do with that it is natural to want those things and it is sad to feel alone but man 25 your still baby go have fun enjoy the "NO STRINGS ATTACHED" cause when do find yourself in a relationship that is serious you are going to reminiscing on the single days
good luck~~~~~~~~~~~~enjoy yourself while you can~~~~~~~~
2007-03-05 02:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by a_bug 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I knew that marriage was something I wanted long before I turned 25, so I would have been sad if I had reached 25 and not yet been married. (I got married at 23.) However, I think, by the phrasing you're using, that you are asking if it is "pathetic" that you are not married yet. To that, my answer is no. There is nothing at all inherently wrong with still being single at that age. As a matter of fact, it is becoming more and more common for first marriages not to occur before the late 20s or the early 30. Don't worry about it, and enjoy being single while it lasts. Take each stage of your life as it comes and live your life to its fullest, whatever your marital, financial, or any other status.
2007-03-05 02:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope we should remain single (ie have the ability to date many people but not be tied down to anyone) until we are ready for that level of commitment that being in a relationship or marriage entails. I'm 31 and while I've been in 2 longterm relationships recently, at 25 I was working on my doctorate and really didn't have time or the inclination to be in a serious relationship.
2007-03-05 02:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because you are still young and finding your way,there are
no rules to say you must be dating at certain age, maybe you
have a lot on your plate right now even if you don,t enjoy your
life,I am 28 and i found out actually you can be happy single
people who tell you otherwise are scared to discover themselves
and need someone for self-worth,a break from a relationship
is very healthy. because you time frame is only for the moment
then when you are ready then you will have one. Alot of
people think they are ready and they goes to every relationship
with baggage from the last person and never gave themselves
a chance to heal,that why some many relationship don,t
work.In your life think of the positive side of it.maybe you
need a break from it because you want love so far you probably
dated females who don,t have nothing going for themselves
get you a friend,better yet get closer to God for more understanding,seek him first, and all things will fall in place
Guaranteed 100%.
2007-03-05 02:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A glass of water can be half empty or half full...It is up to you. Every age is good as long as you go with your heart. Being single gives you the freedom that you might not otherwise have when you are in a relationship. In a relationship, everything you do will have to consider how it affects your partner but in return, you will have someone to share your life with. Being single, you can date many people (hopefully not all at once) and do whatever you enjoy without having to answer to anyone.
2007-03-05 03:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by sillyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!! Its not sad!!! My uncle got married for the first time when he was 33 years old!! So you got a long way!!! Enjoy your single life, go out, travel, enjoy your career, treat yourself to something nice you want, such as a new car, new T.V., new couches, new wardrobe, etc.......Once you get married you cant just think about yourself you gotta think about yourself and your spouse, the decisions you made on your own once have to be shared with that other person etc......Being married is great fun especially when you marry that special someone, but take your time! You still have a couple years. Its better if you take your time and not rush into a relationship/marriage, and remember God knows what is best for us. Take care I hope my comment/opinion helps!! God Bless you!!! Remember there is always someone out there for us!!!
2007-03-05 02:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, No it's not sad to be single at 25, times have changed and people are settling down much later in life now. There is plenty time for relationships, Enjoy yourself.
2007-03-05 05:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by kevina p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im in exactly the same boat!! well, I'm 24 and a half so nearly. I think its okay if waiting for the 'special one' but I admit it can get very frustrating at times. Some people would be jealous of us cos theyve been through messy relationships and wish they hadnt been. But others will slag us off and say we need to get out more!! If you're waiting like I am, then lets keep at it and be proud of wanting a proper relationship rather than just flitting about like some people do. All the best in your search. And as they say, they come when you least expect it!!!
2007-03-05 02:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that sad? Sad is when you're 45 years old and still single. You're young! Soon you'll meet somebody, fall in love, get married, and then miss being single after about 2-3 years! ENJOY IT while you can!
2007-03-05 02:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its the best time to be single. There are more single people in this world than ever now day's and some enjoy it. Its not so bad anymore because the married folks wish sometimes they were single and single people sometimes wish they were married. They both have there ups and downs i guess
2007-03-05 02:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋