One of my friends wants to have a baby she has started messing with condoms(not sure how) and not taking bc anymore. I am worried about her that she will get what she wants but at 19 yrs old i think this is a bad idea!for her to have a baby plus she cant even clean her room!or drive!Her bf is not much more responsible than her and is a party guy.Should i warn him indirectly?
2007-03-05 02:29:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Personally i dont get how he has not noticed anything yet?But when she brings up babies in front of him he gets uncomfortable and leaves the room.
2007-03-05 02:30:52 · update #1
I think you need to tell him. Your friend will be pissed with you, but what she's doing is irresponsible and immature.
2007-03-05 02:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
In my personal situations i've always had safe sex & my condoms have never broken or torn. To actually tell you what to say to your friend is a bit difficult, but it's a great consideration considering that you are her friend. Try to very best to tell her that having a kid is a HUGE resposibility, plus telling her the many things to actually have a child might put her in the spot to shock her & reconsider messing around in such a young age. LOL! About her not cleaning her room & driving doesn't really make her ready to become a new parent, but yea, it DOES help. I suggest that you tell her in the upmost positive way of not having a child, if this doesn't result to work, then it's up to God & her own actions to go along if she gets pregnant. Well, good luck & let me know about how you did!
2007-03-05 02:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL confident... it fairly is the worst subject to do is make a guy think of they are being secure and the subsequent subject he's acquainted with is he has slightly one on the way in simple terms reason the female performed with issues and not permit him understand. twiddling with the condoms like poking holes in them and not telling him that she stop he B.C pills.. Thats is amazingly tousled.. with the help of all means tell me his digital mail handle and that i visit tell him.. Somone extra effective tell him.. They wont be a satisfied relatives in any respect.. tell her to get a domestic dog 1st and notice how that works out, then they could talk approximately having slightly one.
2016-10-02 10:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by catanzaro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that's dangerous! She will end up being a single mom if her plan works. He will run a mile if she gets pregnant.
I think that you should tell this man what a devious manipulator this woman is before an innocent child is brought into world.
But why should her not being able to drive have anything to do with it? I can't drive, and I have a daughter, and my mom raised three children without needing to drive!
2007-03-05 02:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Generally I wouldn't get involved in other people's business, but this is totally unfair to the bf and he absolutely has a right to know that he's being setup to be daddy without his consent. Confront the gf and give her a choice to tell him herself first and then yes, make sure she has and tell him about her plans.
2007-03-05 03:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by chicchick 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would warn the boyfriend. Your friend does not sound mature enough to raise a child. And, it would be better to have a child with somebody who wants one, and therefore will be around to help raise the child.
2007-03-05 02:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Laura H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. that kind of **** can mess up both of there lifes. it dont seem like he want a kid right now if leaves when the subject is brought up. you should let him know. if he wanted a child he wood not use the condom
2007-03-05 02:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to her about it first and see if you can change her mind before you go behind her back and tell him. if she still insists on sabotaging the condoms then you should let him know. it isn't fair to him to think that they are using protection when she isn't taking bc and is messing with the condoms...
how is she doing that btw... poking holes in them?
2007-03-05 02:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by jessicamichelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell him ASAP! its his life too that she is trying to ruin, having a baby should be a mutual thing. sure your friend WILL get mad at you but if shes a real friend she will get over it. if she doesnt you dont need friends like that anyways. if you dont want to tell him yourself find a friend you trust that he knows too and have them tell him.
2007-03-08 10:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by moore_256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
warn him but tell your girl to be careful what she wishes for she sounds like she's not ready.
2007-03-05 02:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by soleolunar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋