just one. i want to be open and honest with my husband but i think he might be mad if i tell him. what to do?
2007-03-05 02:27:29 · 12 answers · asked by sallienjim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're swingers it shouldnt be a problem! if you're not then there may be a problem. just tell him, cause if you keep it hidden and he finds out somehow it could make him not believe you in the future. he may get mad, but not as mad as if you would lie
2007-03-05 02:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly , one question you should have in your mind is, that do you really love your husband?? If the answer is yes, then I think you should speak to him,
Secondly, was sex life with your husband great or you needed some extra fun in life?
Do you think your husband loves you ?
Did you do this just to get back at him for some reason or the other?
Evaluate every question mentioned above and have a acceptable answer before you talk to him.
I think you should make a nice meal at home open up a bottle of wine and talk ,tell him how much you love him and you did not know what went over you and that you would never do this again..
If he loves you and really wants you and is the understandable type he might forgive and forget....
If he does not then you should accept the blame and live your life as there is no one else to blame but yourself..
2007-03-05 02:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by SURESH M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you going on dates with other men if you are married in the first place? Second have you ever heard of STD'S three men in one night your asking to catch something! And last but most important; i don't know what kind of marriage you have but your husband should be mad you say he was OK with a date you didn't say he was OK with having sex with your date let alone three people so you were dishonest from the start. And yes you should tell him the truth weather he gets mad or not because he is know susceptible to catching a STD.
2007-03-05 03:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Debra G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you married your husband, you committed to a life with just him. No where in your vows did it say, "I'll marry you as long as I get to still date and sleep around." You are not committed to him. In the Bible it says that a wife should submit to her husband and compliment him. Maybe you and your husband should start following the word of God and then you will begin to see how fruitful your lives together will be. The power of Christ is an amazing force that shouldn't be discounted.
2007-03-05 02:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok for one there is not any way which you're a "good ethical individual". good and ethical human beings do no longer sleep with somebody else on a similar time as they're married. in case you desire to be with somebody else then break up and additionally you may sleep with "Ron" all you desire! yet so a procedures as you sound asleep alongside with your husband it is not dishonest. You sound asleep with the different dude is dishonest.
2016-12-18 15:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trash, your husband will probably throw your a** out because you are whoring, around and he doesn't want a woman that is easy and who sleeps with other men you should have thought about what the consequences were before you did it
2007-03-05 02:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of marriage are you in? You are definately in an unconventional marriage. Obviously you two are pretty open, why not tell him that you fornicated with two other men. I'm sure that won't matter too much since you guys are in to that kind of stuff.
2007-03-05 02:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, any husband who lets his wife date deserves to hear all the nasty little details....
2007-03-05 02:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the Jerry Springer show?
My problems don't seem so bad now!
Thanks!
2007-03-05 02:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. why bother about him getting mad, if you lose him, you have 3 more.
2007-03-05 02:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Marlon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋