ok i asked the ? about my parents kicking me out when i turn 18.....well there is a lil bit more to this that is a problem....im pregnant and i still havent told them but they wont really mind b/c im almost 18 and they will kinda figur that something like this would happen my b/f lives wit me and he sleeps in my room well with them kicking me out and me getting a job all my money is going to go to my baby and my b/f said that he will pay for an apartment but he wants to move to a bad city so we are away from red lion but im not trying to raise my kid around violence and he doesnt understand that at all what should i tell him?
2007-03-05 02:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well i am 1.5 months and i dont know what to dop by the time they kick me out i will be a lil over 3 months
2007-03-05 02:12:40 · update #1
my b/f isnt a bad guy...he really isnt hes gonna be there but he has a bad judgment in where he wants to move what should i do about that
2007-03-05 02:17:31 · update #2
Do you know for a fact your parents are kicking you out?
If your boyfriend does not want to move to a decent place then do not go with him, tell him straight out have fun but you'll be alone because im not putting my baby in harms way.
I would advise you to sit down and talk with your parents and tell them whats going on and tell them your afraid for yours and the babies safety if you move to the neighborhood your boyfriend wants to and that he refuses to move anywhere else...
3 things could happen from talking to your parents and telling them your situation
1)Your parents talk to your BF and get him to change his mind
2)Your parents still kick you out
3)They allow you to stay
What you should do is call of Section 8 and get yourself on a list to wait for a house. That is the only thing I can say to do if your BF refuses to live anywhere else and your parents refuse to let you live there, if they refuse to let you live there try going to a relative or try to talk your parents into letting you stay a few months till Section 8 finds you a house.
2007-03-05 02:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with your parents. I don't care if you don't get along with them or they want to kick you out. Your happiness took a backseat right when that baby was conceived. Don't ruin your kids life by moving to a bad city. At least don't make it grow up there. You aren't living responsibly right now. I would be completely honest with your parents because they are the ones that can really help you. You will need it being 18 and a mother. Good luck with everything and always put the baby first. It isn't choosing to be brought into such a crazy situation.
2007-03-05 02:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by The doctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever assume what your parents will think* in any situation..Your best bet is to be the (almost) 18 yr.old that you are and go talk with your parents...lay it out there that you're pregnant, you don't want to move to a violent area ..etc..Just be Uprfront and Honest*~! Hopefully they are supportive for you..but don't be alarmed if they are Shocked at first*...they'll need to let it sink in..this is a reality check* for you all*
As for your b/friend..he needs to step up to the plate and take responsibility. He may be a good guy...but now he has a child on the way...and needs to think of that FIRST....always*!~ You both need to sit down and start going through the ads for places to live and raise your child. DO NOT move to somewhere, where you know can cause you or your child any harm* (I know there's crime everywhere..but there are places also..that you just KNOW NOT TO Live*)
Best wishes..............Be Honest and Upfront*~ Don't Assume*
2007-03-05 02:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents the situation. I don't imagine they'll be too pleased about the whole situation but if they love you and their future grandchild, they'll soften and be willing to help. . Let them know that you made a mistake, ask for their forgiveness and their help.
That doesn't mean you don't have responsibilities though. You have to let them know that after the baby is born, you'll be either getting a job and will start getting your life in order or you'll be going to school, to further your career and provide a better life for you both.
I don't recommend you move into bad neighborhood for your boyfriend, if he wishes to go, that's up to him. Stand firm and hope that someone will be there to help your situation. I would hope your parents, would be more apt to help you more, than your boyfriend, you have to talk to them. Good luck.
2007-03-05 03:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, If your parents are really kicking you out and your only option is to live in a crappy area, I dont suggest having a baby.
2007-03-05 03:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a long talk with him, and explain to him that you do not want to have your child in a violent enviiorment.
2007-03-05 02:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you think and by the way congrats on the baby
2007-03-05 03:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by yo dude wats up 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost.
2007-03-05 02:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, keep it a secret!!!! It doesn't affect anyone!!! God, don't be so **** in' stupid!!!!
2007-03-05 02:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
GO FUC K YOURSELF
2007-03-05 02:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by mvp u mf 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋