Anal Sex? has anyone tried it? did you like it or no? what are your views/oppinions on this? for it or against it post your comment........
2007-03-05 01:40:22 · 24 answers · asked by AvaZiannDuke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my wife love it. for year she told me that he O's where small and none fun will after introducing her to backdoor play she love it. she gets O's all the time. so go for it. Just remember to take it slow and start with a toy. From local sex shop a good one to buy is my first anal Kit . and buy lots of lube.
2007-03-05 01:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have anal sex. Some times it works, some times it doesn't. If she's not relaxed enough it hurts her, but when she is she really enjoys it. Usually she asks for it. She also enjoys a finger or toy back there while I'm giving her oral pleasure. That's a great way to start and see how it goes.
For something really different I let her use her fingers and a toy on me. It can be a mind blowing experience for a man too.
2007-03-05 10:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First time I ever tried anal sex was with my husband. I was scared at first but he reassured me that we would take it slow, which we did. He was very loving and caring about it (still is); rubbing my back and telling me how much he loves me.
First time I couldn't go all the way. It took me two months to get the hang of it and now I love it! He was very patient, loving, and compassionate.
I think anal sex can be a delightful experience if you have a partner that knows what their doing and genuinely cares for the person their with.
2007-03-05 09:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joa5 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a decision only the couple can make for themselves. I personally have not done and it will not do it (my hubby of 5 years also agrees with this attitude). However, we dont' look down on people that do enjoy it. Sex is a personal experience and should reflect the wishes of the couple. Don't do it if you feel pressured into it, but if it's soemthing you're curious on or want to try, then by all means! Sex is fun and experimenting with someone you love and trust is even more fun!
2007-03-05 09:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Love it and never thought I would. Can be painful at first but once its in, you've never felt anything like it before in your life. Its even better if you stimulate your clitoris while he's doing it.
In all honesty, the first time I didn't really enjoy it. I was nervous and not relaxed. The 2nd time we had both had quite a few cocktails and it was phenomenal.
Fair warning...something that no one has probably told you and they don't show in the movies.... if he ejaculates inside of you, be careful. The next morning when you feel as though you have gas, go to the bathroom before you make a mess of yourself, because it isn't gas. It's what he left inside of you coming out.
Sorry...I'm so sorry for being graphic...but you asked and I wished someone would have warned me before I let him do it.
2007-03-05 09:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by jlonva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, let me say "To each their own". I realize that this is popular and there are many men who enjoy this as much as women. So...if it's for you and it works than great.
I personally do not enjoy this. I am not a prude. By God...far from it. But I consider it degrading to females and I myself find nothing exciting about it. I always though that there were plenty of other things to do during sex that made it unecessary for me to engage in that particular act.
2007-03-05 10:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried it for my husband a couple of times and I just coundn't deal with it! I actually hate it and it hurt no matter what we did! He won't stop bugging me to do it and makes me feel bad because I won't do it! Now he watches anal videos and still makes me feel like crap....here's some advice, don't get into a realtionshop with someone who enjoys it and you don't because believe me you will have a lifetime of guilt because you can't and won't do what your partner wants you to...good luck
2007-03-05 09:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally up to the individual. We tried it and it wasn't a big deal. Besides, it's not what one would call aesthetically pleasing.
If you consider it, be sure to use a condom to prevent any chance of infection; it's not a really hygenic form of sex.
2007-03-05 10:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have never tried, this is not a grand hotel...there's one way in and one way out. I would not let my husband talk me into it,( he hasn't asked either) because although we have a great sex life, I do have boundaries. It just seems unnatural with all the other choices that there are when it comes to making love.
2007-03-05 09:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Like it sometimes. It's up to the individual. It actually feels pretty darn good when you have a partner who can be gentle.
2007-03-05 09:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋