a lady staying with a man who brutally beats her up(over little things) and after which sex her up pratically everyday . the sickening part was the woman treats the beating up as a foreplay and enjoys the sex part. despite feeling violated she just cant stop this stupid cycle..what advise can i give so that this woman stop behaving in a destructive way .. if the men is reported will dere be any case?
please help
2007-03-05 01:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by CT T 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like they have a sado masochistic relationship, if she truly views this as "foreplay" as you stated. If this is the case, then their relationship is weird, but it must work for them.
She may have incredibly low self esteem and may feel as though she "deserves" this treatment perhaps through her upbringing.
All you can do is let her know you support her and are willing to assist her in getting the help she needs when she decides to seek it.
If you feel like the woman is truly in serious danger and this isn't just an S & M relationship, then rally some troops and hold an intervention.
Best of luck to you!!! :)
2007-03-05 01:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hard to say. Is this sort of a fetish with her? Does she just have a low self-esteem? I would tell her that if she enjoys the sex part that she should not gripe to you about this anymore. It sounds like she's probably a drama queen and maybe only consoling with you for more drama. Most people pretty-much do what they want to do.
2007-03-05 09:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by lawolifer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋