ok so just be honest and if you sound shallow, whatever, at least you're being honest.
1. you're a guy, and you like a girl. let's suppose that you are a little nervous to approach her. would you like it if she approached you first or said anything (anything at all) to you? OR would you prefer to make the first move?
2. there are two very attractive girls, both with good personalities. one of them has never had a boyfriend because she doesn't like to get with just anyone, the other has had several because she's just....like that. which would you prefer?
3. do you hold doors open for females? if so, why?
thank you very much. this will help with some data i have to collect.
2007-03-05 01:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by 360 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. i would like it ,shows shes confident 2. i would prefer the first girl if she thought i was better than just anyone (a bit special) 3. yes maybe i am old fashioned but that's the way i was brought up.
2007-03-10 02:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUESTION 1 - Personally I have never had a problem approaching women. Seriously. My brother on the other hand is different. He's only gone for girls that he KNEW had an interest in him before he asked them out. So all in all if you like a guy, send out the signal. Make it easy for him to ask you out. If he doesn't then he's not interested or can't take a friggin hint! And in both cases you should move on!
QUESTION 2 - Depends on what a guy is looking for. Believe it or not, guys don't always want a relationship the way girls do! They just want to get laid! So if I was a young single guy looking for a good time, I would look for a good time girl. Simple as that. Chances are if I engaged in a serious relationship, it would be with somebody I already knew and was already close with. Somebody I didn't realize that I cared about all along until now.
QUESTION 3 - I ALWAYS hold the door open for my wife. I always makes sure that I am walking closest to the street when we walk. Why? Because it's what a gentleman does (among other things). I'm not sure when treating women with courtesy and respect became unstylish!
Hope this helps!
2007-03-05 09:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. I would like her to approach me if I am a little nervous. I wish she made the first move, because if she does I am going to approach her again.
I would not prefer to make the first move, because some women may act "what does he want?!". Others are sensitive, but they are few I may consider making the first move if she glance a flirting smile so I would know she is interested. I won't go for her unless I feel I am interested too and that she looks my type.
2. If both women are attractive, I choose the one without a girl friend without blinking an eye.
3. I keep doors open for females as long as I am not committed, even if I am in a relationship. It depends on your definition 'on keeping the doors open' really. If I am committed, then the door will be shut down for good.
You are welcome. Hope this will help with the data you are collecting.
2007-03-05 09:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Holmes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If i really like the girl, and i am too nervous to approach her, then i would only hope that she would see that i like her and i am too scared to approach her and she make the first move, it might be so much easier after that.
2. I would definitely go for the one that never had a boyfriend. Reason being, she shows lots of responsibility and she just wants to find one guy and prob get married and live life happily every after.
3. Yes i do hold doors for women, and pull out chairs. Reason being, that is how i was brought up and it is like programmed in me. But it is really a nice thing to do, and it makes a woman seem respected.
Welcome!!!
2007-03-12 23:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Saint Mike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Well I'm kinda shy and completely oblivious to any and all hints of affection so, in a perfect world, it would be great if she approached me. Here in the real world, I don't prefer to make the 1st move but it's pretty much necessary these days. I know a lot of girls that just plain WON'T approach a guy regardless of how much they might like him.
2. I would have to go with that second girl. I like a girl to have some experience in relationships so it's not just all 1 sided. With that first girl, going in I've had a few relationships here and there and I wouldn't want my experience to intimidate her or scare her off.
3. Yeah I do but I do that for pretty much everybody. It's just one simple common courtesy. Holding open doors, pulling out chairs, helping her put on her coat. Nobody is a gentleman anymore so I just do these things to show love and respect to my girlfriend.
2007-03-05 10:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Brother #1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) A GUY has a lot of ego, that often stops him from picking up on a girl's signals. what if I'm reading her wrong. If you like him, why not try something brillant and simply go up to hiim and say, Hi. I'm free sat night, whould you like to go out?
2)I think the girl who's had a few boy friends is a better risk. the girl who is so fussy she's never found anyone who is worthy, will most likely have standards so high, even superman couldn't fullfill her dreams, the other girl, who's had a few boyfriends, maybe she realizes she's not perfect and wil have more practical expectations for a boyfriend.
3) yes, sometimes, to be polite and to honor her, I open the door, sometimes I just go through it.
best,
frankie chocolate
2007-03-05 09:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If you're too nervous to approach her, I'd suppose it's best if she makes the first move. Usually, I'm out going enough that I don't mind making the first move, though.
2. The girl with 'experience.' They usually know how to have more fun.
3. Yes. Cuz my momma raised me that way :)
2007-03-05 09:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by blamb! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. I hate making the first move, things are much easier when the girl approaches me
2. the girl that has never had a boyfriend would be much more attractive to me
3.yes, its a sign of respect which most guys dont have for girls
2007-03-05 09:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by terry s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. if a girl wants to approach me its fine. one needs to make the first move doesn't matter which one.
2. It would depend on the personalities and which one was easier to talk to.
Yes I do. Actually i tend to hold doors open for anyone. its just polite and one of my random acts of kindness
2007-03-05 09:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by driveawreck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If I really wanted to talk to her I would go up to her.
2. Sex is really common today. I would go for the one without a boyfriend becuase she seems more likely to be faithful than the other.
3. Certain ones. Out of respect. Or becuase she is cute.
2007-03-13 00:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Neil m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋