To be honest i don't know who i am any more. i feel so confused. HELP ME.?

Answer 1

Well then celebrate, because you are a rare and beautiful moment of life. You are in a position to create yourself as you'd like to be, because you are not stuck on who you are.

Don't worry about who you are now. Think about who you'd like to be, and move into that. Be happy!

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear you're hurting. However, a lot of us feel like that aswell, sometimes every day, sometimes a few times a month. It is absolutely normal to feel confused and question what you are doing. In fact that is the only way to make positive changes in your life and change the path in which you are now.
Try not to take it badly and worry about it so much, just keep questioning what you'd like to change or keep and go from there.
Maybe changing careers, or taking up classes in something you always wanted to try such as a foreign language, or ceramics or yoga and you might meet people that might enlightened you and make you feel a little bit more sure of who you are!
Good Luck and if you need a friend you can e-mail me when ever you want!

-Stella

Answer 3

Okay, somethings rocked your boat and you've lost your equilibrium for the moment, or maybe you've done something you swore you'd never do. If it's the latter, then seek forgiveness from the one you hurt, and forgive yourself. I'm not saying undo what you've done. What you did may have been exactly what needed to happen, but you may not be too proud of how you pulled it off. Again, ask for forgiveness, and forgive yourself.

However, if something has "knocked you for a loop" then involve your family and friends in helping you during this difficult time. Both family and friends are awesome, and they help you a lot in realizing that you haven't really changed that much. You just need their love and support through this "bump in the road."

Good luck, Sioux Chef!! One thing we already know about you is your apparent love for cooking and a culture of which you are proud. God bless you!

Answer 4

It would be easier for people to give you a good answer if you would tell more about what is bothering you. If you are a teenager, bless you, kiddo, you are normal, and this too shall pass. Even so, whatever your age is, it sounds as though you would benefit from some counseling for awhile, there is nothing wrong with that, to vent a bit, and have someone to talk to one on one and help you put things in perspective, and if you can find a good counselor, they can also help you with tools and techniques to deal with things. Even though this place is called yahoo answers, I do think that some things are better talked about in person with someone, you can come here for an opinion, but really, to sort your life out deserves more personal attention....

Answer 5

It sounds like you are going through some kind of life-changing or life-challenging experience.

Difficult to say any more because you don't give any clue as to what it is, but my advice (for what it's worth) is try and find someone to talk to you can trust, possibly someone in the same boat as you (and there are probably more people out there than you think).

If it's a specific problem that is bothering you there may be a self-help group out there for people with similar problems or you may be able to get some professional help.

Answer 6

We all go through changes in life, sometimes forced on us by events, sometimes because we want to.

I'm not sure what has happened in your life to make you feel so confused but understanding the impact things can have on your metal state, even if you don't think there is any association is very important to healthy mind.

I was always bought up to believe that '****' happens, the important thing is how you deal with it.

It helps to talk to a councillor who will help you to answer your questions.

Answer 7

I feel that way sometimes myself. What is the purpose of life?
Why are we here? What does the future hold for humans on this earth? Is all of this some mysterious plan for a future for this earth. I love to look at the stars and Universe and wonder there is such a big Universe out there and we are such a small part of it. What plans does God have for that great big Universe?

Answer 8

Life is difficult. Read the book "The Road Less Traveled' and can u afford professional help? If not , talk to someone in person if u can. Sometimes just to ventilate ur inner agonies help and just remember u are not alone in ur confusion and search for identity.

Answer 9

I've suffered this problem for a couple of years. I actually had lost my faith and all desire of talking with my creator. Exactly a week ago i was in my bedroom looking at a photo on the wall, of my wedding day (31 years ago!) and i thought regretfully of how i had changed (in worse), when suddenly the cord of a bedside light first sparked and then caught on fire, threatening to burn down the house! My outlook on life has changed- I'm optimistic...(I've also stopped looking at nudies on the 'net!)

Answer 10

Be yourself.
Don't listen to the idiots who will mock you for being yourself.
Eat your vegtables.
Brush twice a day daily.
Visit the dentist and eye doctor once a year.
If u gave out more details then I could come up with something better b/c thats all I've got.

Answer 11

Well we always want to be different than others we want to be unique be different but we aren't being ourselves we are acting what we want others to see but we don't show our real self since we fear we may get hurt by exposing us to another person .

To help you out to find yourself type a list of all the things u like and the things u enjoy and do them if possible at least some of them, u will see u can only find yourself by being yourself and only you know yourself better than anyone else .

Hope it helps