Could I be pregnant?

Question

My boyfriend and I grind together with clothes on.There were no fluids. But lately right after my 3 day period, I've been having cramps... the one's i get before my period and it's been going on for about 5 days and no period is coming out. I feel like vomitting, I'm getting headaches and tender breasts. I'm worried. What can it be? I tested negative on the home test. Does anyone know for suuure?

I went to the doctor and said i'm okay. I'm still worried so i'm taking a test next thurs.

I was waiting for someone to say that i am getting naggy. But I can't take it out of my head! These cramps won't leave me alone, the headaches are getting worse and when i took the home test, I feel like it was gonna be double lines... !!! I'm pretty sure nothing went in me though! This is insane!

Answer 1

Dear confused,

To fall pregnant, fluids must be transmitted. And the fact that you got your period afterwards also suggests that you didn't fall pregnant.

If you did have intercourse, you should wait till your period is due before you test, as you're very likely to get a false reading from the pregnancy test if you do it too early.

How ever... because you are cramping, and feeling unwell, i would suggest you see your doctor, as you may have an infection, or could have something along the lines of endometriosis, or it could be something totally different.

Really the best advice i can give is that you go and see your doctor.
What ever you tell your doctor is kept confidential.

Wishing you all the best.

Answer 2

If you and your boyfriend are getting that close with eachother, well you should take birth control and you wouldn't have to worry so much. To answer your question, I doubt you are pregnant. Stop thinking about it and your periods will come. You are stressed about it so it will delay everything. One day when you are pregnant, you will feel it trust me. The sore breast is totally normal when your periods are close. If you don't get anything in a couple of days, and pregnancy test still shows negative, than you should see a gynecologist.

Answer 3

I am not trying to be rude,but how many times are you going to ask the same question and get the same answer over and over? There is no possible way that you can get pregnant through your clothes. To convince you maybe you should do some research on making babies on the internet, ask a teacher, a parent, or even a friend who has a better idea. Just stop worrying. You are going to make your self sick with this. Trust us you are not pregnant.

Answer 4

Okay........STOP!!!!! You have asked a million times, and you keep saying not sure when you choose a best answer.

EVERYONE ELSE IS SURE!

You are driving yourself nuts. The hormones released during the dry humping can be causing some cramping for you. Seriously. Your body is dealing with something different. I agree with others, make an appointment with a doctor...and ask if you can be put on birth control pills!!!!! Then you won't worry.

Answer 5

No you are not pregnant. You actually need to have sex in order to have a baby. If I were you I would go around to a few websites and read up on what you need to know about sex, babies and your menstrual period. Become familiar with what’s normal about your body and what’s not. Read about sex and find out about the process of pregnancy. Plus, if you have irregular periods try starting birth control. This will help get your periods on track and keep you safe (although not entirely) from getting pregnant.

Answer 6

It sounds like the guilt is causing you to have some physical symptoms. It's not unusual. With clothes on pregnancy is NOT possible. You probably need to take a break from "grinding" for your psychological health. And because once you start that, you are very close to actually having sex and risking pregnancy for real. Don't give in to pressure.

Answer 7

I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are in your teens your body could simply be adjusting your cycle. It happens from time to time.
The other symptoms you're experiencing could easily be related to anxiety. Just keep an eye on things and if you have no period next month then take another test/call your doctor.

Answer 8

if your that worried about it then go to the doctor. Honey if your not trying to get pregnant- get on the pill and maybe don't be messing around like you have been if it such a concern. You cannot get pregnant with clothes on if there were no fluids.

Answer 9

It could be Endometriosis. It is a common health problem in women. It gets its name from the word endometrium, the tissue that lines the uterus (womb). In women with this problem, tissue that looks and acts like the lining of the uterus grows outside of the uterus in other areas. These areas can be called growths, tumors, implants, lesions, or nodules.

Most endometriosis is found:

on or under the ovaries
behind the uterus
on the tissues that hold the uterus in place
on the bowels or bladder

Pain is one of the most common symptoms of endometriosis. Usually the pain is in the abdomen, lower back, and pelvis. The amount of pain a woman feels does not depend on how much endometriosis she has. Some women have no pain, even though their disease affects large areas. Other women with endometriosis have severe pain even though they have only a few small growths. Symptoms of endometriosis include:

Very painful menstrual cramps
Pain with periods that gets worse over time
Chronic pain in the lower back and pelvis
Pain during or after sex
Intestinal pain
Painful bowel movements or painful urination during menstrual periods
Heavy and/or long menstrual periods
Spotting or bleeding between periods
Infertility (not being able to get pregnant)
Fatigue
Women with endometriosis may also have gastrointestinal problems such as diarrhea, constipation, or bloating, especially during their periods.

Who usually gets endometriosis?
About five million women in the United States have endometriosis. This makes it one of the most common health problems for women.

In general, women with endometriosis:

get their monthly period
are 27-years-old on average
have symptoms for two to five years before finding out they have the disease
Women who have gone through menopause (when a woman stops having her period) rarely still have symptoms.

What can raise my chances of getting endometriosis?
You are more likely to develop endometriosis if you:

began getting your period at an early age
have heavy periods
have periods that last more than seven days
have a short monthly cycle (27 days or less)
have a close relative (mother, aunt, sister) with endometriosis

Some studies suggest that you may lower your chances of developing endometriosis if you:

exercise regularly
avoid alcohol and caffeine

Why do patches of endometriosis cause pain and health problems?
Growths of endometriosis are almost always benign or not cancerous, but still can cause many problems. To see why, it helps to understand a woman's monthly cycle. Every month, hormones cause the lining of a woman's uterus to build up with tissue and blood vessels. If a woman does not get pregnant, the uterus sheds this tissue and blood. It comes out of the body through the vagina as her menstrual period.

Patches of endometriosis also respond to a woman's monthly cycle. Each month the growths add extra tissue and blood, but there is no place for the built-up tissue and blood to exit the body. For this reason, growths tend to get bigger and the symptoms of endometriosis often get worse over time.

Tissue and blood that is shed into the body can cause inflammation, scar tissue, and pain. As the misplaced tissue grows, it can cover or grow into the ovaries and block the fallopian tubes. This can make it hard for women with endometriosis to get pregnant. The growths can also cause problems in the intestines and bladder.

Why is it important to find out if I have endometriosis?
The pain of endometriosis can interfere with your life. Studies show that women with endometriosis often skip school, work, and social events. This health problem can also get in the way of relationships with your partner, friends, children, and co-workers. Plus, endometriosis can make it hard for you to get pregnant.

Finding out that you have endometriosis is the first step in taking back your life. Many treatments can control the symptoms. Medicine can relieve your pain. And when endometriosis causes fertility problems, surgery can boost your chances of getting pregnant.

How would I know if I have endometriosis?
If you think you have this disease, talk with your obstetrician/gynecologist (OB/GYN). Your OB/GYN has special training to diagnose and treat this condition. The doctor will talk to you about your symptoms and health history. Then she or he will do a pelvic exam. Sometimes during the exam, the doctor can find signs of endometriosis.

Usually doctors need to run tests to find out if a woman has endometriosis. Sometimes doctors use imaging tests to "see" large growths of endometriosis inside the body. The two most common imaging tests are:

ultrasound, which uses sound waves to see inside the body
magnetic resonance imaging (MRI), which uses magnets and radio waves to make a "picture" of the inside of the body
The only way to know for sure if you have endometriosis is to have a surgery called laparoscopy. In this procedure, a tiny cut is made in your abdomen. A thin tube with a light is placed inside to see growths from endometriosis. Sometimes doctors can diagnose endometriosis just by seeing the growths. Other times, they need to take a small sample of tissue, or a biopsy, and study it under a microscope.

Answer 10

Sperm has to get on and into you in order for it to get anywhere near the egg to impregnate you.

Please find a nurse, teacher or other (reputable! Not your buddies!) resource that can fully explain the reproductive process to you, what can and what cannot get you pregnant, and what can and cannot cause an STD.