What should i do i divorced 6 years ago after 17 years of marrage left a single parent of our four lads, had relationship or two they mostly did'nt know what they realy wanted mixed up, but now im 136 miles from my birth home in a relationship of three years my 14 year old son is with us it's her marrital home she has had her son back from his farther, he's been left school 10 months refuses to apply for work she keeps him she cant get on with my son, who is at school still quiet nasty to him at times, i want to leave just go back to my family but she had me put my name on her mortgage it's remortgaged up to the hilt but i can just walk away i am unhappy iv had one or to female friends get in touch she just get in a rage with jealousy wants this that and the other back mud fliging as if i am her concubine she has to take controll all the time iv tried to stick it out with hope it will get better but it dosent help ! what would you do
2007-03-05 01:11:59 · 7 answers · asked by raymond b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run away. The money can be sorted later.
2007-03-05 01:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have your name taken off of the mortgage. I believe it is called a quit claim deed or something like that. Contact a mortgage broker and they can assist you that. If you are in a relationship and have children your new partner should treat your child better than you. If they don't....then it is a gotta go situation. Your child comes first. It sounds like you are completely unhappy so I would suggest getting your name off of the house and move back to your birth place. Establish a home there and create a good environment for your child. Don't move again until your son has graduated from high school. Also, don't worry about all these ladies you are talking about having relationships with. These are precious years with your son so take advantage of the time with him. In 4 short years he will be an adult and you won't get to spend the time with him like you can now.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 01:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd walk away. If you've tried to make things work and it still isn't working then its time to move on. Things aren't going to improve, if anything, they are going to get worse. Also, your son should be a priority in this and if she's being nasty to him then you should get him out of there definitely. Its a tricky situation with your name on the mortgage though. You could end up in a bit of bother with that. Before you leave, I'd go and see your solicitor and find out exactly where you stand and what your options are. It might be a bit of hassle sorting your life out again but life is too short to stay in a relationship that's making you unhappy. I wish you lots of luck and hope you find happiness.
2007-03-05 01:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have too much baggage for this to work out, explain that you are not happy with the situation and that you must leave. Only take your clothes and your kids with you, she cannot then have you for stealing, you should be able to get your name off the mortage later. Good luck hope everything works out for you.
2007-03-05 01:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about your son!! Get out now and dont worry about the Mortage and money that really is not important!!!
If your not happy then your son will see that and pick up on it!
2007-03-08 19:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by kirsty m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like so many problems here, why not start by tacklling the root cause?
2007-03-05 01:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Laralyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a freaking nutjob, and so are you if you stay.
2007-03-05 01:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋