After reassuring him that I wasn't going to turn into a lesbian and leave him, he seemed to be fine with the news. I'm just not knowing what I do now. Am I supposed to experiment to see 100%? There were a few private parties this weekend for bisexual/bicurious women but I was too scared to go because I'm not sure what to expect. I'm not looking for some big orgy!
Any experiences from bi men or women who came out to their partners? Anyone ever been to one of those private parties? What happened?
2007-03-05 01:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by danielle s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nothing. Haven't you made a commitment to being only with him?
2007-03-05 03:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people would have you believe that being bisexual means that you can't be committed to one person and that you need to go off and explore all aspects of your sexuality, that's wrong. I mean your fiance is not the only guy that you find attractive. That doesn't mean that you have to now go off and become sexually involved with the next guy that you are sexually attracted to in some way. It doesn't mean that because you have decided that you are bisexual that you now have to find a woman to become involved with at this time. You have to decide what it means to you in the context of your relationship with your fiance. Did he say that he was okay with the idea that you were going to no longer be in an exclusive relationship? Did you two decide that because you are no longer being exclusive that he is no longer required to be exclusive himself? Will you make it joint playtime by adding another woman to occasionally spice things up or will you and you share intimate times with a girlfriend in private? These are things that you didn't mention in your question but are details that you will need to work out. Remember just because your fiance is okay with your bisexuality doesn't mean that he can't be jealous of your girlfriend. Talk with him some more and then decide where you want to go from there.
2007-03-05 09:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In aus , ive been to a few priv parties, its not like that. (orgy) well here it isnt its more of a get to know the other person more like a club scene of the same people interested in the same sexual reference, but that doesnt mean you cant flirt and have fun etc if your confortable in doin so and if your ready, take it to the next step. DOnt mock it till you've tried it its a beautiful experience :) Just dont rush it .
GoodLuck
2007-03-05 09:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honey, hopefully you take time to find yourself, and realize what your looking for in life.
with or with out your BF. how ever your comfortable.
2007-03-05 09:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by chucknkeith1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋