my husband travelled to london and left me coz of his work,from a week he told me he want 2 divorce me coz he doesnt have money again.and he hurt me in many words,he is not answering his phone ,i want 2 make him jealous and to make him angry although i love him so much but what can i do ?please help the only way i can contact him is on the net..
2007-03-05 01:01:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am sure it's something else which is causing the divorce... dont act naive... love is more powerful than money... find out the truth so that u stop suffering... go n meet ur husband if need be... gd luck
2007-03-05 01:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, even though it does hurt you need to leave him alone. Trying to piss him off and make him jealous isn't going to get him back. What people don't understand is that they best way to get even with someone is lose contact with them. He said he wants a divorce. Don't contact him... The less he knows the more he worries. If you are constantly bugging him, than he won't have to wonder if you are over that quick or not. He will have to wonder what's going on inside of your head, and if you really are over him. And so on and so on. Give it a shot girl.
2007-03-05 09:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but I think he was able to convince that he loves you. I think he really need a divorce. No such thing as loving someone by ignoring the person he love. Duh, wake up.
Your problem is your feelings on you're going to cope with it. That's the reason why he accepted the job in London to free himself from you and from hurting you more as well.
It would be easier and best for you not to see him till that feeling of yours to him will fade. When that time come, he'll show up and will make friends with you.
The bottom line is,divorce will be a mutual decision.
2007-03-05 09:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by nontester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silence speak louder than words! just stop contacting him, and honestly, i think he has someone else , money is never an issue if a guy really really want to be with you. they will try everything to be with you not just any cheesy execuse like money issue. I have been lied by my ex like that and I know how bad it could make you feel. Be strong and just lost contact with him. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-05 09:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by eggyaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you work? is he usually with money as you speek or is his head usually just above water(debt)
has he ever been unfaithful that you know of?
do jump to conclusions maybe he is broke and he is feeling a little bit sorry for him self or he might feel like a loser right now
leave him a message asking about how broke he is or reasure him that you'll love him broke or not
but if this is a little something more that broke (a woman involved)
i'm sorry if this is your case
some people that you know love you they will always hold a special place for you in their heart
but
they love you but their not in love with you any more
2007-03-05 09:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by country-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not answering your phone calls and has told you he wants a divorce why would you think he is still in love with you? he has made his decision and by the sounds of it he has moved on with ease so don't throw good time after bad move on get the divorce allow yourself time to heal from the hurt and move on
2007-03-05 09:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't email him. Don't call him. Don't have ANY contact with him. After a couple of days of not hearing from you he'll start to wonder why! After about a week he'll wonder what's going on! And after about 2 weeks he'll be itching to come home to see why you haven't responded to him and what you're up to! TRUST me......sometimes silence speaks louder than words!
2007-03-05 09:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not answering the phone for his WIFE, and you want to make him jealous. Yea, you two sure sound mature enough to handle something like marriage.
2007-03-05 09:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by joey k 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't be foolish, he has someone else, and wants to begin a relationship with her. You should want better for yourself. You should realize that you deserve better. You cannot make someone love you. Or respect you. God bless****
2007-03-05 09:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if money is the issue... then why not prove to him that you can save money... money is one of the number one reasons people get divorced.. and i had a shoppin issue.. and i had to get the regins on it and contorl it..
find out what his issue is and try like you have never tried before to fix it..
2007-03-05 09:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by chrissy30753 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋