I say seems to make my wife upset. Her personality has totally changed since she has become pregnant especially now at her 5th month. I mean she tells me that she loves me but she acts as though she doesn't want to touch, hug or anything meaning close with me. Well, once in awhile she is gentle but on the most part she is so bitchy. She tells me not to take anything personal but it's hard because she is so cold. It's really upsetting me so what do I do?
2007-03-05 01:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do everything for her. Don't you see what having YOUR baby is doing to her body. Women go through enormous physical and psychological changes during pregnancy, and you should be there to help her, not complain. When my wife was pregnant, she yelled, screamed and even hit me whenever the contractions got bad. I was a rock, standing tall for her so she could know that I was always there for her. After having our baby, she truly understood how deeply I loved her because no matter how bad she was, I was right there for her.
If you really loved her, you would stop complaining and be her rock. Remember, she has to carry YOUR baby. Do you think it's easy for her? Maybe you should have more empathy for the woman who loves you so much as to give you a child.
2007-03-05 01:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You face what many of us have and believe me it is not uncommon. A woman's hormones change so much through pregnancy that they can seem to be raging monsters at times. You just need to ignore the harsh comments, be supportive, try to provide her with comfort, and realize that she is caring a little bundle of joy around in her that's kicking the crap out of her bladder most of the time. Think of how you would feel if you had some little foot kicking you in the groin throughout the day and it might bring things into focus. And as far as being cold, some women crave affection and intimacy during pregnancy, others want to be left alone. Just hold her when she asks you to. Let her set the pace for intimacy. Be patient and less immature - you haven't got but another 4 months to go and you won't die waiting.
2007-03-05 01:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally. She may have raging hormones, feel unattractive, and could be so uncomfortable right now. I know it's hard to be around someone like this, but I have to admit, I was pregnant four times, and the first was just miserable. I got huge, had water gain so much you couldn't see my knees or ankles, and felt like a whale. I lived in Hawaii for the first two and felt like a big fat fatty when we would go to the beach.
Things will get better, but if they don't AFTER the baby is born, she made just need help with her hormone levels.
Try to be patient with her, loving and understanding. Get a book about pregnant woman so you will know this is totally normal.
2007-03-05 01:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got this way during pregnancy too, it sucks for you and her. My hormones were all out of whack. When you go to her next appointment as the doctor if there is anything that will help her moods, sometimes simply changing the way you eat can affect your mood.
I am sorry you are suffering through this, but it will be over in a few more months and you will have your wife back and a beautiful new baby.
2007-03-05 01:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's stressed the baby will feel it. Try to keep her as happy as possible. It wn't be easy. I breezed thru my pregnancy, but my sis was a complete b*tch. Let her take control of what she wants and let her be as happy as a clam. Her hormones are on overdrive and are out of control. Don't hold it against her. It won't be much longer before she has the baby and becomes a lot calmer! As a treat... let her have a day of pampering.. It's not easy being pregnant!!
2007-03-05 01:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u feel exactly like my husband did. our whole body changes . shape, speed, what turns u on. ypur hormones are all jumbled, so its`easy to become upset faster. be there 4 her. make sure u are trying to make things easier for her. show her u care. its hard notto take personal. u may want to ignore the mean stuff. only 4 to 5 months left. itll be okay.talk to her about what exactly hurts u. she can help to. shes not helpless. once my hunny told me what exactly what i did that hurt him i changed. i saw`from my side only until he pointed out his side. its a wonderful, yet difficult time. show interst and she should loosen up. sorry to say but shell be getting more uncomfortable come 7 months and up. just be there with pillows and her fav. food. mgood luck. you guys will b ok.
2007-03-05 01:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Men will never understand what it feels like to be pregnant! You try carrying around a load like that, along with everything else it does to your body and see how you feel! She will come around. You think it's bad now......what till the baby is born!!! lol
2007-03-05 01:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by LISA E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah...dude.. Grin and Bear it. I have been pregnant three times. Being pregnant is so demanding on our emotions, our bodys, our minds and just everything. It will just get worse until she pops out that baby. Maybe you should let her friends help out more often and stay clear.
2007-03-08 10:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all women do that when theyre pregnant. leave her alone for a few days and see how it goes.when the baby comes shell probably be the same way she was at first.
2007-03-05 01:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she does'nt want this child
maybe it's not ur baby
maybe she's upset about something
maybe she's not keeping too well
maybe she's too moody
maybe u had hurt her sometime earlier and she's like waitin 4 an apology.
the possibilities r endless...........
confront her and find out soon
take care and good luck!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 01:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by serena 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋