do i stay with him just because im pregnant?

Question

im five months pregnant but i dont love the father anymore and all we do is argue what should i do. should i stay with him for the baby or leave him and be a single mum

Answer 1

I have no idea about the full situation between you two, but could it be possible that your pregnancy is making your relationship seem worse than it is?
Women go through tremendous physical and psychological changes during pregnancy. Unfortunately, most men are completely stupid about how to deal with it. So they try to defend themselves by arguing back when their wives/girlfriends strike out at them.
If you REALLY can't stand the situation you are in, then you will need to do what you must do. However, please consider carefully before you make that decision. I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just saying that maybe it is not as bad as it seems.

Answer 2

Being pregnant is a very emotional experience and you might just have these feeling because you are pregnant. if you felt the same way before you were pregnant then you should probably not be with him if not you only have four months to go see how you feel after you have had the baby.i am a single mum and choose not to with the father as my feelings had change towards him as yours have we argued all the time and i felt my child should not be brought up in that environment. If you decide to leave and if possible to have a friendship with him so that he can be a father to the baby

Answer 3

You should never concieve a child with a father who is without love, immature, drugs, smoke, no job or ambition and who will abandon you both.

The fault lies with YOU!

YOU PICKED HIM...... YOU FAILED TO CHOOSE YOUR CONCEPTION PROTECTION.

You have determined a fatherless life and a struggling Mum for an unborn baby! How old are you!

You need to grow up soon deary. You have a lifetime to make it up to your baby.

Don't stay with him if there is no love.

Be a single Mum and go the road of so many immature young people.

Sex does have a price eh?

You now better get into school and be a professional who makes alot of money. Give up men for 6 years and work hard to get a degree and raise your child. When you are making over 150,000 pounds a year, you can go back to men.

Now go pay for what you did and Good Luck and God Bless your child from you, who could be the worse of it's problems.

It's Your Choice from here. school.


Grow up

Answer 4

Well i think that you should work thing out with each other and, maybe talk things over like the problem you two are having..Yes i do think you should stay with him because of the baby cuz there are a lot of children that are out in the world and half of them don't even know who the real father is.. But if you dont who is going to help out with the baby and just mybe when you have it things might come a little bit easier with you two.. and thing might go well..

Answer 5

Things won't get any better once the baby is here. If anything the will get worse - a lot worse. Babies but an immense strain on even the strongest relationship. If your hanging by a thread now it will be 100x worse when the bundle of joy arrives.

It might seem scary but you might be better of alone. It isn't that bad I guess, lots of people do it sucsesfully. The only thing I would say is make sure have have a lot of good friends and family around, you will need them now more than ever.

Answer 6

did you love him before you got pregnant?no its not a loaded question.the thing about being pregnant is the hormonal rushes sometimes get in the way of how we truly feel about the other person.when i was pregnant with my first child i was so tired,ill,fat.upset about going to the doctor all the time it felt that i was the only one having the baby and in the physical way i was but it can get you down and you start to blame everyone for you feeling this way.if you can try to ride the next 4 months out then after the baby give yourself time to get it together then start to think about how you feel about the boyfriend i know it sounds like forever but you are dealing with the father of your child and you will be dealing with him for ever no matter what you decide about the relationship so don't rush into any decision now just relax and let time show you what to do

Answer 7

You have answered your own question.Why would you stay with someone that you are not in love with anymore.It is never a good idea to stay with someone because you have kid's.The children pay the ultimate price in the end.One of the biggest mistakes that parents make is using the excuse of the children to stay together.End your relationship now and move on be the mother to your baby that your baby deserves don't stay and bring the baby up in an un-loving home.Good Luck to you.

Answer 8

NO, never stay with him when you dont love him anymore. My parents stay together for me and my brother and their daily argument made our childhook like living hell and it affect me and my brother's opinion of love and relationship, so just leave him, give the baby all the love you can give, and be sure to allow the father to be the baby's father if he want to, coz it is not your right to take away the baby's right to have a father.

Answer 9

It could be the horomones that make u feel like u dont love him anymore but NEVER NEVER NEVER stay with anyone under any other circumstances than the fact that u love them and want to be with them. That baby is not gonna make your relationship work it will only worsen if thats not where u wanna be. Besides u wont necessarily HAVE to be alone, alot of men date women with children. Its not a big deal for some

Answer 10

If the environment is not great for yourself why would you want to bring a baby up in the same. You and your baby will be a lot happier just you two if thats how you feel about your boyfriend. If you really think there is no going back with you two build a new life for you and your baby. Good luck for the future.