Alright. I have a gf named Heather. Were having some trust issues in our relationship. My ex, Britt still gets on line to fight with my gf. My ex tells Heather I'm not with her and is still dating her. she believes it. I'm never on inless its to answer qeustions on here, during study hall. Heather tells me she trusts me, but then she e mails me and accuses me. What do I do?
2007-03-05 00:45:40 · 11 answers · asked by Ripsi W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have a good talk with your gf to let her know that no relationship can survive without trust and that u are with HER now not the other chick. The other girl is jealous that u have someone else now and your gf should not let other people tarnish her relationship. She is giving the ex girl exactly what she wants. Your ex wants you two to argue and break up So let your new girl know that if she doesnt want that to happen she needs to ignore the ex
2007-03-05 00:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget them both! You don't need that kind of childish drama! Drop Britt like a hot potato. Just stop talking to her. Ignore everything she does. She's trouble. As for Heather, write her an email and tell her that you just can't deal with this type of behavior. Tell her you're sorry that Britt has managed to come between you two, but that you cannot continue to be forced to focus on proving yourself to her, when you ought to be studying. And if she can't trust you, over something as petty as this, then it's best you two split up. Don't fall for this kind of crap. Psychic Vampires! They suck you in, and spit you out and you're left carrying all the stress.
2007-03-05 08:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Heather to change her email address for one. Why does Heather believe Britt over you? Did you do something for her to not trust you? You have to prove to her that she can trust you. Maybe take Heather with you and confront Britt and tell her that you are with Heather now, and that Britt needs to get over it.
2007-03-05 08:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by msjody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like your in a love triangle....if not then get rid of the ex...there's a reason why she is an ex..if you want this to work with Heather, then show her but saying good bye to the EX...its about actions...and with this action, Heather will trust you without the insecurities of what if its true...good luck
2007-03-05 08:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been in that situation before my ex and my gf and the situation is getting worse they got into physical fights and they dont know why are they fighting just some rumors coming from their friends
i talk to them personally and say my case i just keep my cool but my gf is really very upset about me and my ex in the movie last sunday dont know who spread the rumor its not true....
one week she feel cold about me and i let her have her say
i didnt argue about it just i keep quiet the more you argue the more she got upsets
i just talk to her and said if you dont believe me its no used having a relationship...she didnt answer
that was 7 years ago now im married with 1 kid and im loving every minute of it i found a wonderful woman who understand me
and the rumour comes from her best friend who hates my ex and wants to get back on her
my advice is just play cool if you are right--- you are right
they will come to their senses
2007-03-05 09:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are innocent...let her know that without "trust" there can never be a serious relationship. Without trust there is nothing.
so if she does not trust you and would rather believe your ex it seems to me "she" has a problem, may be time to move on.
sorry
be cool...
2007-03-05 08:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is everything in a relationship without trust you have nothing.Plain & simple..
2007-03-05 08:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Network your pc to Heathers !!....easy....solves all the problems...or sit next to her while you on answers.......good luck.
2007-03-05 08:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think ur gf is feeling insecure, plus wit ur ex in de pic, its juz makin things worse..tok 2 ur gf..assure her dat u luv her..onLy..and tell her 2 trust you...makin sure u use dat trust right.
luckz.
2007-03-05 09:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by p3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should do something about ur ex... make it clear to her in front of ur current gf that u love only this one... no way ur ex can say anything to ur gf then...
2007-03-05 09:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋