Lost out completely after being ditched and hurt by every human being, I am now isolated, depressed and lonely at 58 yrs can I start life again- feeling helpless and miserable being totally alone staying in India without having a companion and being fiancially decomposed -for me it sounds and seems really scary and frightening -Ayesha Ahmed
2007-03-05 00:41:45 · 8 answers · asked by ayesha a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello Ayesha, Salam Alaikum.
What makes you feel so depressed and dejected. You need to have a friend to lend a ear to you and to just be with you to make you feel happy as you seem to be lonely. See what has been your way of life all these years? Age does not matter as long as you are a sensible human being. When we talk about young age or teenage it is not related to maturity or experience. You are young enough to be matured to evaluate your experiences whatever they may be to brighten up the horizon, so why do you fell dejected now. See whatever has been the past life it can be mended for a brighter future and it depends purely on you. There are other ways of relaxing your tensions and emotions and it has to be done slowly and thoroughly. Please write to me in detail all about your self and where you are from and I can suggest some solutions depending upon your regions preferences. Trust in God who is above all and is in control of all situations.Looking forward to your reply my id is [danielrufus@yahoo.co.in], Waiting to be of some assistance to you Ayesha bhabhi..bye..
2007-03-05 07:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jus4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks to feel that way. It doens't matter if you are 70! You can still live your life to the fullest. Just go out there and do it. Don't let all the negative things in your life bring you down. Think of the positive things. Even if you don't feel like there is anything positive, think of the past things you have accomplished, the people you have helped. Live for YOU, not someone else. Find a hobby. I don't know anything about India, but surely there is something you can do, even if it's volunteering at an orphanage or a hospital. People will appreciate you for that and learn to love the person you are inside. Don't let others, and bad circumstances bring you done. Love yourself, and soon, others will learn to love you as well.
2007-03-05 00:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to wait. Take charge of your life! Go out and meet new people and make some friends, and buy yourself something pretty. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something that you really like. Try not to spend too much time alone, if you can't make friends with someone right away, just keep busy, try to have a hobby, like some kind of craft where you can create things, that always makes me feel better. Good Luck, don't give up, just KEEP TRYING everyday!
2007-03-05 00:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient with life, pray for what u want, and believe it is coming to u. it is understandable how one of life's disappointments can affect the whole life. yes it is scary to start out new again, and move toward the unknown. bad circumstances do happen in every ones life, as life wasn't suppose to be always easy. we have to deal with life's disappointments, and know that there isa god, who loves u, and is waiting to help u. just let god decide your life, he knows u were hurt and cast off, so i would imagine he is now working in your life to make some changes. even when we think he isn't there he is. just don't believe what anyone says about u, don't let your present circumstances define who u are. those that hurt us have problems within themselves, it isn't our fault. u will find a new companion, just don't let your present circumstances depress u, it does get better, good things do happen to us. just be patient, and wait for the right new partner to come.
2007-03-05 01:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whats the problem in beigning life again.u can start again at any age.its only the inner desire that is required,look at amitab bachan he to was financialy bad and having nothing left to do.just few years back look at him now,the same person he is on the top of the industry and he is above 60.scary and frightening all this is for kids.
2007-03-05 02:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off quit feeling sorry for yourself. pick yourself up take a good look in the mirror and say today. i am not doing this anymore i am taking my life back at this moment. now get off your butt and start living, go places ,see people live live live you make your own misery.stop it right now, make a list of things you need to do and want to do get at it no time to waste. get your priorities in check .. good luck
2007-03-05 00:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by raven1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no waiting period for this - its your life - YOU make it what you want it to be!
You can find a way to make your life better - keep your eyes open for opportunities, take care of yourself, change that negative attitude.
2007-03-05 00:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Bismillah erahaman eraheem" 786
"ASALAMUALAIKUM"
Trust in "Allah" he will certainly do good to you he has not betrayed any Human being in this world" including me " Always don't give up hopes. I will certainly Pray to" Allah " on behalf of you. "Allah Hafiz"
2007-03-05 01:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋