I am 18 years old. All my life I have been told that I look like a girl. I was always chosen for female roles in school plays (mine was a all boys school). My friends are always trying to make me dress up like a girl. I have lost a bet and am sure they will make me wear a female outfit. Should I just go all out and do it or resist. I guess the more I resist the more fun it wd be for them but if I cooperate it wont be that much fun for them.What if I just showed up in a skirt and blouse...wd that stun them speechless?
2007-03-05 00:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
That's terrible. I would do what is more comfortable for you. If you don't like it then you shouldn't do things to please your friends. I think if they were truly good friends they will understand. Have you ever told them how you feel about this? Find a clever way to let them know how you feel and still have them as friends. Ask them to put themselves in your shoes before you inform them on how you feel. I think you must look pretty amazing to be taken as a girl, you are beautiful. Don't you know that the ugly girls would love to trade places with you just for one day. Also girls might see you as just a beautiful man, I would. Be happy with yourself first, that's the key. Find the good in everything that happens to you but stay true to yourself, do what pleases only you. Have a Blessed day. I'm a Christian and I will be praying for you. Take care and I wish you all the best.
2007-03-05 00:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by nursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be ashamed of ur looks...if u look like a girl...big deal...so what !!!
But dont assume they gonna dress u up. If that was not what they had planned ..u wd b making a fool of urself. So dont show up in a skirt.
If they do decide to doll u up...dont resist..learn to laugh at urself...they will appreciate how sporting u r and not give u a hard time.
And if u have to dress up...u might as well go all the way and look real pretty and have fun..short skirt, sexy blouse, make up, heels , jew, the works...b a real chick...a hot babe.
And Dude...or shd I say Dudette LOL..if u have been a chick in school plays several times..u already have the exp and practise to pull it off...so doll up pretty...sashay up to the guy who kids u the most...and plant a kiss smack on his lips...that will surely stun them all....ha ha ha...all the best.
2007-03-05 09:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jaya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 18! You won't continue to look like a girl. Perhaps you have some features you consider feminine now which others will find very attractive. If you're going to dress like a girl to fulfill the bet, I'd make it hilarious! Over the top! BIggest boobs, shortest skirt, high platforms, big butt!! But then I'd add a mustache, a cigar, and something large and unmentionable here, purchased in an adult toy store, to pull out from under that mini skirt!! Then don't ever do it again. Boys can be so stupid , it's a shame! Big lugs!
2007-03-05 08:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can identify with you. As a teenager I was so small and skinny that even my mother said I should have been a girl. A girl in my class encouraged to wear a dress and was surprised to find that her clothes were big on me. I didn't play any girl's roles in school plays but I didn't play any sports with the guys either. It was also very hard for me to find a girlfriend.
My advise to you is (1) do not show up in a skirt - they'll think you really are a transvestite. (2) if they want you dress up like a girl then play along with them. Start off acting like its painful, and then joke about it. They'll say something like "this dress looks good on you", and you can reply with, "I bet you say that to all the guys".
Think of some other witty come-backs, for instance...
They'll say, "do you dress like this often?" You'll reply, "only for special occasions".
They'll say, "That's a beautiful outfit". You'll reply," thanks, I'm wearing it just for you."
They'll say, "you're making me feel so *****". You'll reply, "so this the kind of 'girl' you like, hu? You've got a serious problem."
A situation like this can end up for your advantage. And by the way, yes, you will grow out of your feminine appearance. I did.
2007-03-06 20:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jaya is right. If they make u dress up...go all out. Wear a nice knee length frilly dress, make up, jewellery, heels, be as girly and feminine as u can. U need not kiss a guy though unless u want to.
2007-03-06 00:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get depressed with such silly thing my friend if your friends are making fun of you take it in one ear and leave it in other consecrate in your studies you have a long way to go in this dirty world when you reach you goal people will certainly come to you .So don't get depressed live a good life and be happy "God Bless You".
2007-03-05 09:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in manly clothes.
Get a good haircut
maybe change of school help.
Eat high protein diet. Exercise to improve muscles.
that will surely stun them
2007-03-05 08:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mmmmm 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm... I think the real question is- did you intentionally lose the bet so you'd have to dress up like a girl?
2007-03-05 08:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by kia78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would do more than stun them speechless, they would start to think otherwise of you because you seem like you don't to have a problem with this.
2007-03-05 08:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you look like a girl but the questions is do you feel like a girl ?do you talk like a girl ? do you actually want to be a girl ? if the answer is no then change your ways, looks, actions. be a man..
2007-03-05 08:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by raven1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋