Before I was in middle school. I used to be loved by everybody. People's parents always wanted me to play with their children rather than some other people. I had a few problems with some people but no one really hated me. Ever since I started middle school I've had a lots of problems with a lot of people and I don't like it. Even though some people say that they don't want to talk to me or don't want to associate with me, I can't seem to leave them alone. I just wish everyone liked me! I mean i have never had people hate me so much! Is it bad that I want everyone to like me? I need advice!!!
2007-03-05 00:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by southern_cutti3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am now in high school
2007-03-05 00:50:58 · update #1
Its not a bad thing that u want everyone to like u the problem is that it is impossible. Someone is gonna always have a problem with u. Now for EVERYONE to have a problem with u IS a problem. Maybe its time to look inside yourself to see what it is about you that puts people off. You can even be so bold as to ask someone...What is it about me that u don't like? Theres no harm in trying to better yourself. And if they are put off to the point where they do NOT want to be bothered by u then u should definitely leave them alone. It is very aggravating to have someone u already dont like keep bothering u. You will be ok though and maybe its a phase right now.
2007-03-05 00:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad that you want everyone to like you but thats just not possible though we all want to hear that everyone loves/likes us but in reality not everyone does. If you focus on those people then you will not be happy and you'll miss out on the best time of your life. So if they don't like you then leave em alone and go be with the people who do enjoy you and make memories u can someday brag on to ur kids or new friends you'll meet in the future.
2007-03-05 08:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by jbw1_1002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school is where you really start to see how people really are. DO not try to make people like you because the ones that knew you before will remember sooner or later the person you really are. My son is going through the same thing
2007-03-05 08:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by simpli2die4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many cruel people in this world they may not like how you walk or how you talk or how you wear your hair. But the main issue here is if you love yourself and feel good about yourself and friendship will follow. God Bless.
2007-03-05 08:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe these kids were being forced to play with you since u said their parents liked you soo much...
I think you need to learn to like yourself more instead of caring if people like you or not...
I suggest not caring if people like you or not...you need to march to the beat of your own drum...
2007-03-05 08:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a bad thing to want to be liked, you need to realize you can not make everyone happy, and not everyone will like you. try not to let it bother you, if these people do not like you then they are not worth being friends with.
2007-03-05 08:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be rare for EVERYONE to like you. Choose your friend's wisely and forget how the other's feel about you. You can't please everyone.
2007-03-05 08:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋