i noticed in this forum that female answerers feel sympathy for the female cheaters, and very saucy for the man ones.
is it because female think infidelity is just an emothional problem with females, and physical with males, or ..
2007-03-05 00:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by alone in 6billion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the same intolerance for female cheaters as for male cheaters. I actually harp on women more, trying to get them to admit their responsibility in screwing married men by saying if they would respect their fellow women, affairs wouldn't happen so much, since women would turn down married men.
But yes there is a noticeable portion of women on here who support the old "i was drunk, tee-hee, so it's okay" or "I *fell* in love" like it's out of their control as excuses. Men have lame excuses too, but in general men are more criticized for having affairs, perhaps because men might often make the first move.
But it takes two to screw.
2007-03-05 00:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree on cheating but I bet the reason females feel sympathy for other females is cause they know what males do and how they tend to cheat more.
2007-03-05 08:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since men and women are wired differently could it be that women give women more feeling in their answers and men just read it the way they want? Men tend to get short nasty answers because that's all women think they can absorb. Or maybe the women who would give short nasty answers instead of sympathy just skip over that question because they don't have anything to say to them.
2007-03-05 10:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't care what kind of emotional problems you have, if you are adult enough to enter into a relationship with someone you should be adult enough to deal with the urges you have to cheat with someone else.
Anyone who cheats is wrong whether they are a male or a female
2007-03-05 08:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by dorie0371 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven't noticed that, I think the majority of females on this site give quite responsive answers where many men give a wuick anecdote.
2007-03-05 08:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Rational Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I do that. Cheating is wrong, period. But I do feel sympathy for either person who cheats if it's because their spouse is a looser, doesn't treat them right, and they are trapped. That doesn't mean I think it's right, I just have more sympathy.
2007-03-05 08:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people tend to side with their own kind.. so females side with females and males with males.. hehe
though i kinda dont agree with female infidelity as an emotional problem..
females cheat because their men can't give them what they want.. especially in bed... and especially if their man falls short with their needs.. =)
males cheat.. out of lust and to prove to themselves they still have something.. it's an ego thing.. =)
2007-03-05 08:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by crushmybones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is cheating, whether its by a male or a female. I dont take sides at all.
2007-03-05 08:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate cheaters may it be female or male and I am woman.
2007-03-05 08:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating is wrong it doesn't matter if its a man cheating or a woman either way someone is going to get hurt for no reason other then self-control issues or commitment issues either way its wrong and i am female
2007-03-05 08:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by patbgone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋