I'm in love with him and we have been living together for six months. Do you think I should propose and if so how????
2007-03-04 23:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no problems? no abuse? no verbal abuse? not a drunk or druggie? not into kids in a weird way? no cheating?!
he sounds perfect!.......
romantic dinner at home. have it delivered and dish it up onto nice plates. candles. then u have more time to get dolled up and pick the place up. oh music his fav songs and fav movie too.
or take him out. dinner outside with pretty lights all around.
picnic durring the daytime.......or.....heck just ask him!!!!
2007-03-05 00:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by OR 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just getting to the end of your honeymoon period - you guys barely know each other - what is the rush?
Seriously - research amongst my friends shows that the hardest part of living with someone comes six months in - you've relaxed a bit, got used to having each other around, the things you found so cute in the beginning start to wind you up and issues like where to go on holiday/visitng friends and parents etc crop up.
Wait another year and see how things are then.
2007-03-05 10:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people live together before marriage?
It's much more fun if you get married first! The people that say, 'you don't drive a car before testing it' and all that crap are just thick.
Anyway, in answer to your question: don't propose. He may well be waiting for him to be ready. My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years and he's only jsut ready to propose, even though we've been discussing marriage since day one! So just hold tight. It will probably be really soon!
2007-03-05 10:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Stevo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be in a hurry. If this chap has not talked to you about it as yet, I think he isn't ready.
I know you are anxious, but a piece of paper will not change things right now. I think I would invest a littl more time in this man, to make sure you know everything you need to know about him.
Don't go running off and doing something on an impulse. You will know if and when the time is right, He will be asking you........
2007-03-05 08:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only six months? Don't do it! Wait another year at least, or go through some tough times - it's a good test of how strong the relationship is.
2007-03-05 08:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is really the man you want to marry and spend your lif with, what the harm is waiting another 6 months, or even 6 years to see how things work out...marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment...be sure before you jump in!
2007-03-05 08:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could maybe jokingly talk about it and se what his reaction is after all if you live together then you must be pretty serious about each other.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 08:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a time frame. Go ahead ask him if you feel the time is right.
2007-03-05 08:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fernandes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about marriage see what he thinks cause it's still early in the realtionship you don't wanna scare him off
2007-03-05 08:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should gage first whether your man is ready to marry, as you don't want to be disappointed if you don't get the answer that you want.
2007-03-05 08:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Pearl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋