Ex-girlfriend issue?
pls help! I'm in a relationship with a amazing guy. we have our up and down. when is up is really good and when is down is really down the hill. Ok. Our first figh was about his ex girlfriend. she wanted to stay in touch with him and talk to him once a month. I wasn't down with that, as he told me that every time he is in a new relationship. the ex girl usually come and want him back. I polite give him choice either her or me. he told her he can't stay in touch with her, because he is in a rilationship and he want to give a chance. so they cant talk. she agree but she was mad. Now all I hear from my boyfriend he tell me things remind him of her. like certanly purfume, or coffee shop. or sometime when he masterbed he think of her. I got mad. I broke up with him. he doesnt want us to broke up. as he say He love me and he wants to be with me. the only reasoan he think of her or thought of her is because his used to her. Please keep in mind he is very honest guy. what should i do.
2007-03-04 23:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe his old relationship was very good, and he sort of misses it, but then he stopped talking 2 her 4 u!! THat means he loves u. Just give him some time to figure stuff out. U should get back 2gether and he'll try his hardest. If he's an honest man, he should no what u want, or u should tell him that when he is ready 2 commit 2 u and only u, u guys can get back 2 gether.
2007-03-04 23:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the left, to the left!! If your boy has the nerve to tell you that he thinks of her when he masterbates...NASTY!! That is his own business, and he gets off making you jealous. There are many other guys out there, that won't want to think of anyone else, and if they do, they will never tell you. He is not over his ex,and she knows just how to get to him. I am sorry, but you will always have to worry about him. I say, on to the next. Sorry! Sometimes honesty is NOT the best policy! Good Luck.
2007-03-04 23:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Angel333... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Splitting up is stressful even nevertheless it fairly is great to have your ex needing you back. once you have been going out, did she ever say "i'm going to on no account stop loving you" or "i decide for to stay with you constantly and consistently will"? properly, they genuinely will in case you persist with those steps
2016-09-30 05:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by goodfellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what you have written. The down's are really down it sounds like. He tells you when he thinks of her. Sounds like he is major, major insensitive. Can't you find someone else?
2007-03-04 23:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never trust a man who wants to stay in touch with his ex gal he must still have feelings for her to care about seeing her and i think thet once a month is to organised get rid if he wants to c her you should be the one he cares about and if he knows its hurts you and does nothing about it then he dosent care if he hurts you does he mate.
2007-03-04 23:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by nicky b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. better leave him otherwise u r life will be a miserable one
2007-03-04 23:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you needs him more than his ex
knot this into his head
2007-03-04 23:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋