after 2 affairs and countless inderscretions with my pateners friend and neibours ive finally come clean with him and understandabley he dosnt want anything to do with me Hes the father of my 2 children and i dont want to loose him what can i do or say to make it up tp him
2007-03-04 23:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Aj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do you really want to make it up to him? if so why did you have affairs? I hope you aren't expecting any sympathetic answers on here. you sound like a bit of a moron if you don't mind me saying.
2007-03-04 23:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by elsie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will get emotional help and allow him to learn to trust you eventually through deeds and time and only if he wants to that is. I know everyone is jumping at you and you did do alot of things to put so much pain on your partner. Obviously there is something wrong with you. One affair I would say there is something wrong with your relationship and work on it, but countless well there are major problems with you. Were you sexually abused?Why did you want to hurt him and your children. You do have to remember this scars your children for life. do you want them to do as you do? Get into mental help right away. And everyone is very right do you really love this man and if so how can you expect him to trust you again. Something is very wrong with you. Get help right away.
2007-03-04 23:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to be rude but u should've never cheated on him.and theres nothing u can do to make it up to him.have u ever been cheated on do u kow what kind of pain it is.well basicly when u hurt someones heart like that it's like a puzzule w/ a missing piece u can never put it back together again.
2007-03-08 22:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's fair to say that you should be receiving no sympathy. What drove you to have the affairs? Was it dissatisfaction? More importantly was it intended?
Marriage is about trust and obviously you have abused it.
You might need to give him space and time to make his decision.
2007-03-04 23:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by essence_05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be blunt and totally honest with you, I wouldn't want anything to do with someone that did that to me. You need to accept the consequences of your actions and respect whatever he chooses to do from here. I can understand ONE mishap, but you have done this repetitively.
2007-03-04 23:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats what happens when you get caught. He should kick your slutty @ss out of the house and keep the kids.
2007-03-04 23:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get lost...you're doing him a favor...did you ever consider keeping it to yourself? All you wanted to do is dump the guilt.
2007-03-04 23:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey22_jp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope he boots your retard behind out and take your two kids. you did not care about your kids or your partner when you were out there opening your legs. so i have no sympathy for you sorry.
2007-03-04 23:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep on rolling.......start another affair...........who cares about your kids, your husband and about yourself as well?...............the most important thing is to scratch the itch, isn't it?
2007-03-04 23:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do-you have destroyed him and his ego.Let him go find happiness.
2007-03-05 22:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by *charmer* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋