please help, i have all the symptons and i don't know what to do?
2007-03-04 23:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by <3...Carla...<3 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Let me just say that some of these people are being WAY too harsh with their answers. I'm 17, married, and expecting our baby girl any day now. We got married 2 months after we found out I was pregnant. Did we get married just because of that? No. We had been together for 2 1/2 years before I got pregnant. Now he has a great job, has gotten himself a "family car", and we're prepared as much as possible for baby. You still have to take a pregnancy test, just to confirm the pregnancy. There are a lot of times when you'll have all the symptoms, and then worry, and then your period will come. Just take a test and make sure you are before you go to your parents and say your pregnant. If you are, then telling them will be hard. Trust me though, they will get over it soon enough. My parents were pretty upset...and now they can't wait to hold their grandaughter. I promise, everything happens for a reason. Do what you want. If you don't want to keep the baby, then theres abortion or adoption. I'm not going to tell you not to get an abortion because its fully your choice. My parents told me to get one even after I had told them that I didn't want to do that. And look at me now. So, make sure that you and the father of the baby come to a decision before you talk to your parents. Have all the details worked out. Good luck, God bless, and Don't worry about anything. God will help you!
2007-03-05 00:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question is the reason why you shouldn't have been having sex at such a young age. Playing grown-up at 16 is a lot easier than being one at 16.
You need to find out if you are pregnant. You can either take a home pregnancy test, which may or may not give you the correct result, or talk with your mom and have her take you to see a doctor.
If you are pregnant, you have some big decisions to make. You have to take care of yourself and your unborn child. Remember, you can always choose adoption for your child. There are many people who are prepared to take care of a child and truly want a baby.
If you are not pregnant, remember how you feel right now. At 16 you should be focusing on your education and preparing for a life that contributes to society. You should not be worrying if you are pregnant or not.
I wish you the best. No matter what happens, it's time to take responsibility for your actions.
2007-03-04 23:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having symptoms doesn't mean you're pregnant. Early pregnancy can closely mimic PMT/PMS. So can being scared of being pregnant.
What you need to do before you worry yourself into a stroke is to get confirmation either way. Buy a home pregnancy test or see a doctor and get a blood test.
If you are pregnant, firstly talk to your folks and the father, and if you are unable to reach a verdict among yourselves or you are feeling too stressed or emotional, see a counsellor or doctor who will help you discuss your options and figure out what is right for you.
But first things first - get confirmation either way.
2007-03-04 23:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by SydneyMum101 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know everybody will tell you that you are too young...but they are not wrong but if it has happened then you have to forget about all that stuff and focus on what you need to do
take the hope pregnancy test first and then if you really are pregnant then tell you mom and get midwife's appointment.
2007-03-04 23:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by sabse-sundar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all find out if you are pregnant- you can find a pregnancy help clinic near you that can help you. You must tell your parents if you are pregnant- if you are their are options other than abortion- how about adoption? You also must tell your partner- if you are not pregnant- please consider abstaining from sex, this is the only way to not become pregnant for sure.
2007-03-05 02:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy a pregnancy test. If it shows a negative sign then you're lucky. if it's positive, then go talk with you mom because it's only her who u can help you at this moment. I dont think u cant go to the doctor without your mom because you're a minor.
Good luck. Hope things turns out well.
By the way, if it turns out negative, next time, do use a condom ok. Better yet, dont have sex.. you're too young.
2007-03-04 23:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by hellgirl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm in a similar situation and i'm 17. Hang in there and just pray. If you've never tried it before now would be a good time to try it. I wish you all the best, if you are then don't let anyone look down on you and tell you you can't be anything because you had a baby young, continue persuing all your dreams and goals and give that child the best life you can...If you're not then just lay of the sex or atleast be safe and responsible cause its all gonna be on your shoulders if you are.
2007-03-04 23:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jamaican Princess 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
First, before you work yourself up too much. Take a pregnancy test and make sure. Then talk to your partner and your parents.
2007-03-05 00:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by kittynala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16, pregnant and stupid.
Why do you girls always cry over spilt milk.
If you thought you were old enough for sex, then you should have taken precautions.
Talk to your mom before it's to late,
You'll wind up with a baby and on welfare.
It may sound harsh, but you need to wake up.
Babies having babies in this day and age is just plain stupid.
there is no need for it.
2007-03-04 23:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by MKM 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
take the test 1st and see what happens and if it comes back that you are talk to you mum aunt, doc x
2007-03-05 00:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋