what will i can do for our relationship please suggest me.
2007-03-04 23:06:51 · 10 answers · asked by Deepti G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, first of all, u have to calm down and find a perfect time to talk to him. created a nice and sweet moment to talk. and remind him bout love that makes u guys together. u should be open and tell him how u feel and ask him what he wants from u. a relationship only can work fine if u could respected each other and understanding and trusting each other. divorce is not a solution!!! please do noticed. if both of u not decided to change to be a better person, understanding, respecting and accepting each other in good or bad, even though ur guys divorce, the same matter will repeated no matter with who u were married to.
back to ur "main reason" why u are marrying him. dont be regret of it, be bold and be incourage from the problem, that u and ur husband should change and accepting each other and love is the based of everything, so keep it and used it! love each other! and do remember, u wont ever could find another better person as u tot so. there isn't a better man out there, everyone has their point weakneses. so all u have to do is, love, understanding, trusting, and accepting each other. am sure, everything will be ok for u. good luck and be humble.
2007-03-04 23:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havent given much information on what level and type of problem you are having with your husband. Its hard to give you advice when you have only given a brief statement about your relationship. I would have liked to hear more. See I dont know if you are in a dangerous situation like an abusive relationship or in a drug or alcohol situation, gambling out of control who knows what is no good about the relationship cause you are not saying and people giving you advice to work things out and give him another chance may not be the right answer.
2007-03-04 23:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by n_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello dear, just see what he wants from you? You have to go the extra mile if you want to give him one more or even 10 more chances. It is good to see you patch up things and restart afresh. But he should reciprocate your good intentions. So be patient with him, love him like before and saisfy his needs whatever they may be till you reach the limit and then decide for yourself. Hopefully he fully understands you. make sure you are not a stumbling block in his way. Do mail me if you want furthur ideas and suggestions which cannot be told in detail, bye for now..
2007-03-05 08:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jus4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
identify the bone of contentions
discuss the things
take interest in him and his liking
killing an ant or relation does not require much but to build a relation or to make an ant takes a lot
try to love mankind
be positive and remember leaving is not a solution
with all the best wishes
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2007-03-05 02:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by anirudh c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss all the problems,misunderstandings,apprehensions which is keep u away from having Cordial Relation and Sort it out.....Hope u have a beautiful Relation..All the best
2007-03-04 23:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by komal_kavya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give a fair try the way he wants and desires.
i m sure he would love it and ur relation ship would improve.
2007-03-05 15:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go far at a beautiful place for sight seeing with him. Talk very softly and nicely all the time. Be more tolerent.
2007-03-04 23:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he has to give 100% too or this relationship isn't going to make it.
2007-03-04 23:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him and clear all the doubts with him and convience him if you are wrong
2007-03-04 23:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by rajeshwaran j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some time alone(space)
2007-03-05 02:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋