I didn't really like him that much after the split as I was still into my ex. But now I'm starting to like him. He was there for me after the split and very consoling texting me everyday. We did end up together once or twice. Now we are helping each other aswell with business stuff, sharing knowledge etc. He has been asking me for coffee on and off during the year but I was seeing someone so I didn't want the hassle of meeting him as I knew I liked him and I would be nervous. He was hinting at a relationship with me 2 wks ago, but I didn't respond to him on that. I had just split up and was in bits.Last week he wanted to know if we were friends and I said yes friends is good and told him I had split up twice in 3 yrs and so need to do my thing now I guess.Then he emailed me on the business stuff yesterday and said hopes to see me during the week for some fun. I just don't want to end up rushing into something and getting hurt again. I like being with him and think it may be positive??
2007-03-04 22:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's certainly been there. Put a lot of effort into you. Clearly interested. With work involved as well as a mutual friend there are lots of boundaries being crossed. Put the brakes on. He will hang around to be a friend or not. Get your house in order first. Being on the rebound sometimes means anybody will do.
2007-03-04 22:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by mince42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to stay friends at the momeant you are too mixed up to even consider anything else if it is ment to be love will developer from your friendship by the look of it you have had plenty of chances but nothing has happened yet is he really the right one or are you feeling lonely
2007-03-04 22:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by fun, you think he means fun, then think again. "fun" normal means sex! I'd leave it a while and develop yourself without a relationship. Travel, meet new people and live your life!
2007-03-04 22:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by fresh_prince_of_bel_fast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like this guy go out and have coffee. Just because you go out and have coffee doesn't mean you have to get engaged.
2007-03-04 22:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go out with a 'goal hanger', as I call them, then I would think that you were pretty desperate. But do what you want.
2007-03-04 22:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is up with ESSAYs today, keep it to a minimum love, no one in their right mind will read all of the above
2007-03-04 22:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by MuZZy5000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bare in mind that "fun" will probably be just sex nothing else...dont rush
2007-03-05 00:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebound rebound rebound - people always meet the worst people on the rebound - trust me! wat hap wit your ex?
2007-03-05 10:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Michael Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋