2007-03-04 22:32:50 · 16 answers · asked by pariya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your husband is starring at other girls i would make a joke out of it, so that he knows he has been caught, but don't get to upset at first - i would say something like "oh she is pretty hot isn't she?" or "you think that she is okay?" or "no, not that hot, but the girl over there is heaps better, what do you think of the man over there with all the muscles?"
2007-03-04 22:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best reaction is to call your husband and ask him as to why he is seeing othe girls. He is your hubby. He should not come down to such an extent as in his wife he is staring on ot her girl. I think it is not inevitable. It is a difference from man to man. He should be taught to react very nicely and very gently.
2007-03-05 06:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may sound silly to you, but admire them along with him - even point one or two out that he may have missed. He's married, not dead, and it is normal for men to look at other women. By you joining in it eliminates the possiblity that he may be making you jealous AND it may very well tone down his obvious staring.
2007-03-05 06:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply do this be secure enough to stare with him ... my husband used to do this ... so one day i turned around ( i have no problem saying another lady is beautiful ) and pointed the girl out before he could look ... and said now she is a stunning lady just the problem is your married with me not with her ... grinning i walked on ... from that day on he did not do it so obviously ... nothing wrong with looking as long as he does his cooking at home ...
2007-03-05 06:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by join_my_world_of_ignore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'a a democracy out there. Everybody can look at what pleases him/her.
In the men's eyes, nice girls/women are like nice cars.
Are you prepared to make a scene if he looks at a nice car ?
If not, why make a scene when he looks a nice lady?
2007-03-05 06:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by George K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this all the time..i will comment to my wife.."my isn't that a cute women?" she looks and says yep..cause she is self confident in her self...she often tells me "you can look but don't touch"..so if he just looks? the problem is not that bad as long as he don't act on this..at least he is being a normal man.
2007-03-05 06:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him as his wife you expect and deserve more respect and ask him to stop this when you are with him.Pay close attention... he may not be just looking... he could be searching for prospects. Regardless, demand some respect. You deserve it.
2007-03-05 07:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what hes looking at but really if hes only looking there's no harm you cant put blinkers on him but that would work lol x
2007-03-05 06:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comment on how sexy the girl is. Ask him what he would like to do to her. Have fun.
2007-03-05 06:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by White Trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"so, honey, like what you see?" and give him a little wink.
it gets him a little embarrassed, but once it's out in the open, there's not as much tension about it.
2007-03-05 06:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋