You talk to many people whenever there is problem or difficulty in ones life, why?

Answer 1

you talk to a lot of people whenever you have problems so that your mind will be enlightened coz in times that you have problems; ur mind is in daze, u dont have the proper footing in what to do... u can't determine if what ur doing is good or rgiht at that particular time, that's why you need other people's advice...

Answer 2

One of my themes for the evening is "social acceptance." If we are having a problem with another person, we first seek acceptance from those around us. Did I do the right thing? Am I an okay person? What we really want is for the original person to give us their acceptance, but we will try to satiate that desire by confirming acceptance by others in the meantime.

If it's just a situational problem with no underlying hurt feelings, we are simply trying to get more info so that we can hopefully avoid making a bad decision. After all, if we make a bad decision, we fear that we might lose some "acceptance" from one or more people affected by our decision.

As Chris Sligh sang on American Idol the other night..."We all wanna be loved!" :-)

Answer 3

I do this because I feel it is necessary to gauge other people's reactions so that I can somehow work that into what I think. I don't necessarily base my whole thought process on another person's input, but it most cases I give it a good deal of thought. I think it's probably a lot smarter to do this, as opposed to being completely stuck in one's own ways and thoughts about a situation. That could lead one to behave in a manner that they don't realise is deemed inappropriate, and getting feedback from other sources really relieves that possibility. Besides that, it's always just good to sort of let it out and having a good friend there to do that helps immensely.

Answer 4

Most of the time people would seek help from others whenever there is a problem or diffculty in his/her`s life . This is because most people cannot find the right solution to the problem.They often look at the problems from one angle but they would not try looking from other angles.The fact is that when people only look at things from a point of view , they tend to find wrong answers to slove their problem like commiting suicide.But some people ,although they only look from a point of view ,they are open to others point of view . Hence this particular group of people will seek help from others and in turn solve their problem

Answer 5

We talk to many people when we face a problem or difficulty in life.It is just like elders in our country used to say : if one shares happiness , it doubles and if one shares their problems,it divides.Whenever we face a problem our heart struggles to find comfort and a helping hand.So we talk to many people once we face a problem or difficulty in life.

Answer 6

To get second opinion, or many other opinions how to resolve the situation.
Frankly, I don't believe this is helpful.
I usually internalize on my own problems, I barely talk to anyone about it. And if worst comes to worse, i will ask for material means but even then, there is really no one out there to cater to your needs. Best thing is try to solve the situation yourself.

Answer 7

This is because birds of a feather flock together. It is a law of nature, the law of attraction. In describing how badly something went, we make sure that the experience gets repeated just a little bit worse every time. It is the common form of programming.

Answer 8

I feel people talk to other people when there is a problem because it is a good way to get everything out of their head and it makes people feel better to know that someone is there to listen to there pain and give them answers to their problems.

Answer 9

Yes,because that person have who have a problem need to get it out it's mind, or else it could cause them a lot more harm.The person can committe suicide, their problems are just to hard to deal with, but you must know what to tell that person.Or when to give the person some space and time to think.

Answer 10

We talk to other people regarding only those problems and difficulties that we think we have despite deserving better. If we believe that we ourselves are responsible for any difficulty or problem, we try to redress them and talk to others about what all we are doing to redress them. Either way, we are not looking for answers, we are only looking for approval.